New Releases by Alain de Botton

Hoe je je kinderen tot tevreden, interessante en veerkrachtige mensen kunt opvoeden. Als je ergens hulp bij kunt gebruiken dan is het wel het opvoeden van kinderen. Een fijn idee: de ideale opvoeding bestaat niet. Op zijn kenmerkende lichtvoetige wijze geeft Alain de Botton levenslessen aan ouders, waaronder hoe je ‘nee’ moet zeggen, hoe je onder de oppervlakte van ‘slecht’ gedrag moet kijken om de kern van wat er aan de hand is te vinden, hoe je een kind kunt aanmoedigen om oprecht aardig te zijn en hoe je om moet gaan met puberale humeurigheid. In plaats van te streven naar perfectie, zo betoogt De Botton, is het in feite de taak van elke ouder om een kind voorzichtig te begeleiden in de onvolmaakte aard van alles. Goed genoeg ouderschap is een intelligente gids voor het opvoeden van een kind dat op een dag zal terugkijken op zijn kindertijd met precies de juiste mix van dankbaarheid, humor en liefde

Alain de Botton laat 6 grote denkers aan het woord over alledaagse problemen. Ontdek wat o.a. Socrates, Seneca en Nietzsche te zeggen hebben over: geldgebrek, liefdesverdriet, stress en faalangst. Kan Socrates ons helpen bij impopulariteit? Of zou Epicurus ons bij geldgebrek en Seneca ons bij frustraties terzijde kunnen staan? ‘De troost van de filosofie’ van Alain de Botton levert het overtuigende bewijs dat de grote filosofen beslist niet alleen theoretisch toepasbaar zijn. Een gebroken hart kan geheeld worden met de filosofie van Schopenhauer en moeilijkheden in het menselijk bestaan zijn weliswaar vervelend maar ook een absolute noodzaak, aldus sprak Nietzsche.

Una reflexión irónica sobre el mundo del trabajo y del consumo El autor mismo define su libro como un himno a la inteligencia, peculiaridad, la belleza y el horror de los lugares de trabajo y al hecho extraordinario de que el trabajo sea, junto al amor, la principal fuente de sentido de nuestra vida. Hace poco más de un siglo, nuestros antepasados sabían todavía el origen preciso de lo que poseían y comían. Estaban familiarizados con los animales, las herramientas y tenían una relación cómplice con su entorno de trabajo. Ahora, todo nos llega envuelto en fundas cargadas de etiquetas y poco falta para que los niños crean que los pollos nacen en los supermercados. Dispuesto a romper esta barrera, Alain de Botton se aventura primero a darse un paseo por los muelles del puerto de Londres, para desplazarse luego a una fábrica de galletas en el interior del país, luego viaja a las Maldivas con los pescadores encargados de una fábrica de conservas para acabar en los despachos de una empresa que se dedica a la contabilidad. Lo que más le interesa es hablar con las personas que están cerca de los procesos productivos para ilustrar las peculiaridades del "homo faber", y las bondades de casi cualquier trabajo cuando lo examinamos de cerca. Tras estas conversaciones, nada es igual ya: la cereza que corona una galleta, la tapicería de un avión o una lata cualquiera de sardinas tienen a alguien con cara y ojos que estuvo al cargo de su proceso, y de repente el trabajo se vuelve algo menos abstracto y más cercano a los anhelos y las angustias del ser humano. Culto, irónico, maestro de la anécdota, Alain de Botton nos habla de Diderot y Voltaire mientras camina por los hangares de una gran fábrica y reflexiona sobre la naturaleza del arte mientras recorre las líneas de una central eléctrica. «Prepararse para la muerte con preceptos sabios es ofrecerle demasiado respeto. Dejemos que nos sorprenda mientras transportamos pasta de madera o buscamos la mejor manera de fabricar un frasco de perfume: hagamos que la muerte nos pille mientras hacemos algo para la vida.» Con estas palabras se cierra el libro y se abren un montón de puertas insólitas para el lector. La crítica ha dicho: «Si es que todavía hace falta hablar de las bondades de un escritor como Alain de Botton, pues les diré que en Miserias y esplendores del trabajo este hombre se supera a sí mismo en la perspicacia de sus reflexiones y en su complicidad con el ser humano.» Geoff Dyer «De Botton te lleva a pensar en cómo vives pero, sobre todo, en cómo podrías vivir.» The Times

Para muitos, a filosofia não passa de um emaranhado de discussões e teorias que, na prática, não servem para muita coisa. Para o filósofo suíço Alain de Botton, ela é uma ferramenta valiosa, que pode ajudar o indivíduo a lidar com os problemas do dia a dia e a viver melhor. Neste best-seller internacional, o autor explora as ideias de Sêneca, Epicuro, Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Sócrates e Montaigne e, numa linguagem acessível, expõe as soluções sugeridas por eles para as eternas ansiedades do ser humano.

Miért tölt el elégedettséggel a politikusok bukása? Mitől olyan izgalmas a híres emberek szerelmi élete? Miért hagynak hidegen a távoli országok konfliktusai? A sajtó ugyanolyan domináns helyet foglal el a modern társadalomban, mint egykoron a vallás, mégsem vagyunk tisztában életünkre gyakorolt hatásaival. Alain de Botton a repülőgép-szerencsétlenségektől a gyilkosságokon és celebinterjúkon át a politikai botrányokig a hírek huszonöt alaptípusát teszi szokatlanul beható vizsgálat tárgyává. Az író-filozófus De Botton könyve nyugalmat, megértést és némi józan mérlegelést hoz a hírgépezetekkel való állandó érintkezésünkbe: tökéletes használati útmutató a média által bekebelezett világunkhoz.

Going travelling is one of the few things we undertake in a direct attempt to make ourselves happy - and frequently, in fascinating ways, we fail. We get bored, cross, anxious or lonely. It isn't surprising our societies act as if going travelling were simple, just a case of handing over the right sum of money. But a satisfying journey isn't something we can simply buy: it's the result of an art that has to be learnt. This is the guide: not to any one destination but to travel in general. It talks to us, among other things, about how we should choose a path to go, what we might do when we get there, how we should make good moment stick in our minds and why hotel rooms can be such liberating places... In a succession of genial essays, we become students of an unexpected but vital topic: how to understand and more fully enjoy (what should be) some of the finest experiences of our lives. Included amongst these are a number of quizzes and practical exercises to help us reflect on what we have learnt, as well as room for recording our own thoughs and observations of wherever we find ourselves.

En este libro, Alain de Botton trata sobre cómo debemos aprender a amar después de enamorarnos. « El amor necesita mucha habilidad, además de entusiasmo.» Alain de Botton La historia de Rabih y Kristen se parece a la de muchos: una mujer y un hombre se encuentran, se enamoran y al cabo de poco tiempo se casan. Aquí podría acabar la novela con un «...y vivieron felices comiendo perdices», pero en realidad este es el momento en que empieza el verdadero viaje, la fatiga del amor. Entendámonos: cuando Alain de Botton habla de fatiga, no piensa en el hastío y el cansancio que siguen al momento mágico del enamoramiento. Al contrario, nos invita a considerar la vida de pareja como un trabajo que exige voluntad, constancia y mucho sentido del humor, porque a menudo una mujer y un hombre están de acuerdo sobre lo que más importa, pero en los pasillos de IKEA pueden desencadenarse auténticas tormentas. Siguiendo las andanzas de Rabih y Kristen vamos a disfrutar de un sabroso tratado sobre las relaciones conyugales, una novela insólita donde Freud y Montaigne a veces también piden la palabra. Aquí quizá no haya tanto lugar para la pasión romántica, pero en ese transcurso de los días cabe que encontremos ocasiones, momentos espléndidos que nos compensen de tanta fatiga. «El don de Alain de Botton es hacernos reflexionar sobre cómo vivimos.» Jeanette Winterson «Curioso, humorístico y deslumbrante [...]. Contiene más interés humano que la mayoría de las obras de ficción.» John Updike «Cualquiera que tenga, haya tenido o quiera tener una relación satisfactoria y exitosa haría bien en leer a de Botton. Una pareja de enamorados valiente podría incluso leerlo juntos.» Irish Independent «Interesante, comprensivo, meticuloso, agudamente perceptivo [...]. Hay una refrescante honestidad en lo que De Botton tiene que decir.» The Guardian «Bien reflexionado e imbuido de una ternura que se siente auténtica y nada cínica. Puede que incluso salve algunos matrimonios.» Evening Standard «Invita a la reflexión.» Mail on Sunday

Em Edimburgo, Rabih e Kirsten se conhecem e logo se apaixonam. Eles se casam, têm filhos. A sociedade nos faz acreditar que esse é o fim da história, mas, na verdade, é apenas o começo. Em O curso do amor, o escritor e filósofo Alain de Botton lança mão da ficção para discutir, através da história de Rabih e Kirsten, as complexidades de um relacionamento amoroso duradouro. Ao acompanhar o percurso do casal, vivenciamos com eles o furor da paixão, os inevitáveis desencantamentos cotidianos e, ainda, a liberdade e os insights que nos chegam com a maturidade. Botton não se atém apenas ao despertar do amor, mas elabora como esse sentimento pode se manter vivo ao longo dos anos. Mergulhamos com ele na forma como nossos ideais românticos aos poucos se modificam sob a pressão do dia a dia, e deparamos com os esplêndidos — e, às vezes, assustadores — desdobramentos de se descobrir que amar é, essencialmente, mais uma habilidade que precisamos aprender. Espirituoso, perspicaz e profundamente comovente, O curso do amor é um guia e uma reflexão sobre os relacionamentos modernos. Os desafios da relação de Rabih e Kirsten são intercalados por comentários e anotações, o que resulta em uma narrativa ao mesmo tempo ficcional, filosófica e psicológica. Um livro extremamente provocativo e verdadeiro para todos que acreditam no amor.

Curiously practical—this no-nonsense blend of literary biography and self-help unravels how interesting life can be if only you could resist the impulse to rush through the mundane rituals of modern life. Every morning, Marcel Proust sipped his two cups of strong coffee with milk, ate a croissant from one boulangerie, dunking it in his coffee as he slowly read the day’s paper with great care—poring over each headline and section. Only Alain de Botton could have pulled so many useful insights from the oeuvre of one the world’s greatest literary masters. Fascinating and vital, How to Take Your Time will urge you to find the wisdom in defying “the self-satisfaction felt by ‘busy’ men—however idiotic their business—at ‘not having time’ to do what you are doing.” A Vintage Shorts Wellness selection. An ebook short.

Nell’estate 2009 Alain de Botton riceve una proposta a cui non si può dire di no: diventare il primo «scrittore residente» di uno degli aeroporti più importanti del mondo. Il direttore generale della BAA, azienda che gestisce lo scalo londinese di Heathrow, vuole che vi si trasferisca per una settimana, che raccolga impressioni e testimonianze e che le rielabori in un libro. Il tutto da una scrivania piazzata in mezzo all’atrio delle partenze, tra la zona D e la zona E. Autorizzato a curiosare anche negli angoli più inaccessibili e a scrivere tutto, ma proprio tutto, quello che vede, per sette lunghi giorni De Botton gironzola tra terminal, piste di atterraggio e cucine, chiacchierando con chiunque, dagli addetti alla sicurezza al sacerdote dell’aeroporto, dai colletti bianchi a Dudley il lustrascarpe. Finito quasi per caso in un crocevia di storie e di emozioni – amanti che si separano, comitati di accoglienza per parenti ancora sconosciuti, desolati uomini d’affari, immigrati respinti dalle autorità doganali, studenti ghanesi in cerca di un futuro migliore – lo scrittore trasforma i suoi bloc-notes in racconti e in sorprendenti riflessioni sui meandri della psiche umana, sulle affascinanti contraddizioni del mondo moderno e sul viaggio come possibilità di «apportare cambiamenti duraturi nelle nostre esistenze».

“An engrossing tale [that] provides plenty of food for thought” (People, Best New Books pick), this playful, wise, and profoundly moving second novel from the internationally bestselling author of How Proust Can Change Your Life tracks the beautifully complicated arc of a romantic partnership. We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as “happily ever after.” The Course of Love explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence. We see, along with Rabih and Kirsten, the first flush of infatuation, the effortlessness of falling into romantic love, and the course of life thereafter. Interwoven with their story and its challenges is an overlay of philosophy—an annotation and a guide to what we are reading. As The New York Times says, “The Course of Love is a return to the form that made Mr. de Botton’s name in the mid-1990s….love is the subject best suited to his obsessive aphorizing, and in this novel he again shows off his ability to pin our hopes, methods, and insecurities to the page.” This is a Romantic novel in the true sense, one interested in exploring how love can survive and thrive in the long term. The result is a sensory experience—fictional, philosophical, psychological—that urges us to identify deeply with these characters and to reflect on his and her own experiences in love. Fresh, visceral, and utterly compelling, The Course of Love is a provocative and life-affirming novel for everyone who believes in love. “There’s no writer alive like de Botton, and his latest ambitious undertaking is as enlightening and humanizing as his previous works” (Chicago Tribune).

Progress. It is one of the animating concepts of the modern era. From the Enlightenment onwards, the West has had an enduring belief that through the evolution of institutions, innovations, and ideas, the human condition is improving. This process is supposedly accelerating as new technologies, individual freedoms, and the spread of global norms empower individuals and societies around the world. But is progress inevitable? Its critics argue that human civilization has become different, not better, over the last two and a half centuries. What is seen as a breakthrough or innovation in one period becomes a setback or limitation in another. In short, progress is an ideology not a fact; a way of thinking about the world as opposed to a description of reality. In the seventeenth semi-annual Munk Debates, which was held in Toronto on November 6, 2015, pioneering cognitive scientist Steven Pinker and bestselling author Matt Ridley squared off against noted philosopher Alain de Botton and bestselling author Malcolm Gladwell to debate whether humankind’s best days lie ahead.

Como Proust Pode Mudar a Sua Vida é um livro prático destinado a ajudar as pessoas a serem mais felizes: como amar a vida hoje? Como exprimir as emoções? Como ser um bom amigo? Estes são alguns dos temas tratados no livro. Botton parte do livro de Proust Em Busca do Tempo Perdido para falar sobre estes temas.

The New York Times–bestselling author's modern classic that "takes a conventional love story and textures it with philosophical ruminations" ( Kirkus Reviews). A man and a woman meet over casual conversation on a flight from Paris to London, and so begins a love story—from first kiss to first argument, elation to heartbreak, and everything in between. Each stage of the relationship is illuminated with starling clarity, as novelist and philosopher Alain de Botton explores young love and its emotions, often felt but rarely understood. With a brilliant new introduction by Sheila Heti, the New York Times-bestselling author of How Should a Person Be?, On Love is a contemporary classic from an author "who seems to have been born to write" ( The Boston Globe). "Smart and ironic...The book's success has much to do with its beautifully modeled sentences, its wry humor, and its unwavering deadpan respect for the reader's intelligence." —Francine Prose, New Republic "Witty, funny, sophisticated...full of wise and illuminating insights." —P.J. Kavanagh, Spectator

From the author of The Architecture of Happiness, a thought-provoking look at the position that news has achieved in our lives. The news is everywhere. We can't stop constantly checking it on our computer screens, but what is this doing to our minds? We are never really taught how to make sense of the torrent of news we face every day, writes Alain de Botton, but this has a huge impact on our sense of what matters and of how we should lead our lives. In his dazzling new book, de Botton takes twenty-five archetypal news stories--including an airplane crash, a murder, a celebrity interview and a political scandal--and submits them to unusually intense analysis with a view to helping us navigate our news-soaked age. He raises such questions as: Why are disaster stories often so uplifting? What makes the love lives of celebrities so interesting? Why do we enjoy watching politicians being brought down? Why are upheavals in far-off lands often so boring? In The News: A User's Manual, de Botton has written the ultimate guide for our frenzied era, certain to bring calm, understanding and a measure of sanity to our daily (perhaps even hourly) interactions with the news machine.

Em A Arte de Viajar, Alain de Botton fala dos prazeres e desilusões de viajar. Tratando, entre outras coisas, de aeroportos, tapetes exóticos, romances de férias e minibares de hotel, este livro cheio de humor, surpreendente e provocador, revela as motivações escondidas, expectativas e complicações das nossas viagens por esse mundo fora. Acompanhando-o nesta viagem encontram-se escritores, artistas e pensadores que foram inspirados pela viagem em todas as suas formas: Gustave Flaubert, Edward Hopper, Baudelaire, Wordsworth, Van Gogh, Ruskin - todos eles preparados para nos darem as suas visões sobre o curioso negócio de viajar. O antídoto perfeito para aqueles guias que nos dizem que fazer quando lá chegarmos, A Arte de Viajar tenta explicar porque é que escolhemos tal sítio em primeiro lugar - e sugere, modestamente, como podemos aprender a ser mais felizes nas nossas viagens.

Alain de Botton nos invita a una lectura audaz y divertida de la obra de Marcel Proust, el novelista francés más grande de todos los tiempos. Proust se pasó catorce años de su vida encerrado en una habitación en una estrecha cama escribiendo una obra, En busca del tiempo perdido, de una extensión poco común y que sin duda fue el antídoto de una vida desdichada. Pero ¿es posible encontrar lecciones prácticas para una vida mejor en la obra de un hombre como Proust? A juzgar por su obra y por su correspondencia, este escritor poseía un talento especial para aconsejar a los demás en los asuntos más variados, desde el amor o la amistad, hasta por qué no deben leerse demasiados libros, cómo disfrutar de unas vacaciones o por qué no hay que comprar a tontas y a locas.

¿Cómo podemos conseguir que la filosofía forme parte de nuestra vida cotidiana? Alain de Botton demuestra que ésta es una inagotable fuente de consuelo, capaz de inspirarnos y motivarnos a diario. En un fascinante recorrido a través de 2.400 años de filosofía occidental, el autor recurre a la vida y obra de seis filósofos fundamentales para examinar otros tantos problemas comunes. Sócrates ilustra la impopularidad y Epicuro la falta de dinero. La trayectoria de Séneca es un ejemplo ante la frustración. Montaigne se enfrenta a la ineptitud y Schopenhauer al corazón partido. Por último, Nietzsche nos enseña qué hacer ante las dificultades. Con una singular combinación de ingenio, sabiduría e invención, esta obra es una guía práctica para resolver problemas cotidianos y una deslumbrante introducción a la historia y los usos de la filosofía. «Vana es la palabra de aquel filósofo que no remedia ninguna dolencia humana. Pues así como ningún beneficio hay de la medicina que no expulsa las enfermedades del cuerpo, tampoco lo hay de la filosofía si no expulsa la dolencia del alma». Epicuro Reseña: «Alain de Botton ha devuelto a la filosofía su propósito más importante: ayudarnos a vivir mejor». Christina Hardyment, The Independent

From the author of How Proust Can Change Your Life, a delightful, truly consoling work that proves that philosophy can be a supreme source of help for our most painful everyday problems. Perhaps only Alain de Botton could uncover practical wisdom in the writings of some of the greatest thinkers of all time. But uncover he does, and the result is an unexpected book of both solace and humor. Dividing his work into six sections -- each highlighting a different psychic ailment and the appropriate philosopher -- de Botton offers consolation for unpopularity from Socrates, for not having enough money from Epicurus, for frustration from Seneca, for inadequacy from Montaigne, and for a broken heart from Schopenhauer (the darkest of thinkers and yet, paradoxically, the most cheering). Consolation for envy -- and, of course, the final word on consolation -- comes from Nietzsche: "Not everything which makes us feel better is good for us." This wonderfully engaging book will, however, make us feel better in a good way, with equal measures of wit and wisdom.

A bestselling author draws on the work of one of history’s most important writers to show us how to best live life in a book that’s "delightfully original.... A self-help book in the deepest sense of the term" (The New York Times). Alain de Botton combines two unlikely genres—literary biography and self-help manual—in the hilarious and unexpectedly practical How Proust Can Change Your Life. Who would have thought that Marcel Proust, one of the most important writers of our century, could provide us with such a rich source of insight into how best to live life? Proust understood that the essence and value of life was the sum of its everyday parts. As relevant today as they were at the turn of the century, Proust's life and work are transformed here into a no-nonsense guide to, among other things, enjoying your vacation, reviving a relationship, achieving original and unclichéd articulation, being a good host, recognizing love, and understanding why you should never sleep with someone on a first date. It took de Botton to find the inspirational in Proust's essays, letters and fiction and, perhaps even more surprising, to draw out a vivid and clarifying portrait of the master from between the lines of his work. Here is Proust as we have never seen or read him before: witty, intelligent, pragmatic. He might well change your life.

Seks is een belangrijk onderdeel van ons leven en er is al veel over gesproken en geschreven. Alain de Botton doet dit op een geheel vernieuwende en verfrissende manier, waardoor je nieuwe inzichten krijgt in je al dan niet aanwezige seksleven. Weinigen van ons voelen zich `normaal als het gaat om seksualiteit, door ideeën die wij onszelf hierover opleggen. Alain de Botton bekijkt gevoelige onderwerpen als overspel, begeerte, pornografie en impotentie vanuit een subjectief standpunt, wat tot verrassende inzichten leidt. Volgens hem heeft een succesvol seksleven meer te maken met wat er zich in het hoofd van de mens afspeelt dan in zijn lichaam.

Sex is the most intimately human experience there is. It can also be the most confusing. Our desire to be together conflicts with our desire to avoid vulnerability and appear 'normal', leaving us detached, desensitised or embarrassed. Covering topics including adultery, lust, pornography and impotence, Alain de Botton argues that 21st century sex will always be a balancing act of trust versus risk, and of primal desire versus studied civility. By examining sex from a subjective - rather than scientific - perspective, he uncovers new ideas on how we can achieve that balance. Pulling back the sheets on modern sexuality, 'How To Think More About Sex' offers important and surprising wisdom that proves that being good in bed is really all in your head.

Alain de Botton procura em Religião para Ateus interpretar várias religiões, principalmente o cristianismo e, em menor escala, o judaísmo e o budismo, na esperança de encontrar conhecimentos coligidos que possam ser úteis na vida secular, especialmente no que respeita aos desafios colocados pela comunidade e pelo sofrimento mental e físico.

What if religions are neither all true nor all nonsense? The long-running and often boring debate between fundamentalist believers and non-believers is finally moved forward by Alain de Botton’s inspiring new book, which boldly argues that the supernatural claims of religion are entirely false—but that it still has some very important things to teach the secular world. Religion for Atheists suggests that rather than mocking religion, agnostics and atheists should instead steal from it—because the world’s religions are packed with good ideas on how we might live and arrange our societies. Blending deep respect with total impiety, de Botton (a non-believer himself) proposes that we look to religion for insights into how to, among other concerns, build a sense of community, make our relationships last, overcome feelings of envy and inadequacy, inspire travel and reconnect with the natural world. For too long non-believers have faced a stark choice between either swallowing some peculiar doctrines or doing away with a range of consoling and beautiful rituals and ideas. At last, in Religion for Atheists, Alain de Botton has fashioned a far more interesting and truly helpful alternative.

Korean edition of Religion for Atheists: A Non-believer''s Guide to the Uses of Religion by Alain de Botton. From the author of The Consolations of Philosophy, a deeply provocative and useful argument about how we can benefit from the wisdom and power of religionwithout having to believe in any of it- Book Description. In Korean. Distributed by Tsai Fong Books, Inc.

Korean new edition of STATUS ANXIETY by Alain de Botton, the bestselling writer of The Consolation of Philosophy and The Art of Travel, examines anxiety and stresses to overcome these worries in search of self gratification and true happiness. In Korean. Distributed by Tsai Fong Books, Inc.