New Releases by Gary John Bishop

The New York Times bestselling author of Unf*ck Yourself helps you get out of the past, focus on the future, and build the life you've always wanted. There are countless self-help books telling you how to get the life you want - how to find your purpose, make your plan, follow your goals. Yet, too many of us are frozen in life, unfulfilled and stuck with what we have. Too often, we only see our future through a lens of the past - our past beliefs, experiences and circumstances. We desire lives that are 'better', 'more' or 'different'. But we need to focus on crafting a life of invention, completely free of the constraints of what has been, and Gary John Bishop has the answer. Now What? is your guide to building the right mindset to reinvent not only your life but what you are devoting your life to. Be warned though: Gary's message isn't for the faint of heart. You will be confronted and unsettled, challenged and provoked. But on the other side is an invigorating, hands-on approach to living life. Your life. Maybe even a life you never believed you could have. Let's f*cking go.

O carte din care învățăm cum să depășim teama că nu suntem „părinți buni”, ca să putem deține controlul în tot ceea ce facem și să-i îndrumăm și pe copiii noștri să-și asume responsabilitatea pentru deciziile din viața lor Gary John Bishop a ajutat milioane de oameni să renunțe la autosabotare. El ne demonstrează că, în parenting, nu avem nevoie de secrete din bătrâni, de trucuri sau tehnici-minune; trebuie doar să ne revizuim viața, ca să înțelegem cine suntem. Nu ne vom ridica niciodată la înălțimea modelului de „părinte perfect” pe care ni l-am construit în minte – o versiune care combină imaginea părinților noștri cu diverse idealuri culturale și opinii exprimate pe rețelele sociale. Vrem să fim părinți buni, dar trecutul ne trage înapoi. Dacă te gândești: „Nu pot fi un părinte bun, din cauză că am avut o copilărie urâtă, părinți răi sau o experiență traumatizantă” – oprește-te! Renunță la toate aceste idei și începe să acționezi în prezent pentru a deveni persoana care își crește copiii cu iubire, iertare și integritate. În acest fel, îți modelezi și îți înzestrezi copiii pentru a păși plini de încredere în lume și a prospera. Fie că ești părinte, vrei să devii părinte sau pur și simplu ai părinți, cartea de față scoate la lumină adevăruri esențiale despre cine ești și cum te prezinți lumii – de ele depinde capacitatea de a prelua total controlul asupra direcției vieții tale și a le arăta copiilor cum să-și urmeze propriul drum. Gary John Bishop este unul dintre experții de prim rang din domeniul dezvoltării personale. Abordarea sa de tip „filosofie urbană" reprezintă noul val în transformarea personală pozitivă și arta de a trăi, care asigură oamenilor rezultate miraculoase în ceea ce privește calitatea vieții și performanțele obținute. De același autor au mai apărut la editura Lifestyle: Unfu*k Yourself, Gata cu tâmpeniile și Love Unfu*ked. „Bishop își distilează cu succes înțelepciunea în lecții incisive și de efect […], iar cei pe care nu îi deranjează limbajul său colorat […] vor avea de învățat de aici o mulțime de lucruri. Părinții care caută o nouă abordare în creșterea copiilor ar trebui să o încerce pe aceasta.”— Publisher’s Weekly CUPRINS Capitolul 1: O realitate între multe altele Capitolul 2: Din cenușa vinovăției Capitolul 3: Problema cu părinții Capitolul 4: Iertarea unei iluzii Capitolul 5: O nouă perspectivă Capitolul 6: Sparge valul Capitolul 7: Izbucnirea cinismului și ultimul val Capitolul 8: Cele trei moșteniri Capitolul 9: Părintele autentic

The New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself helps cut through our anxieties about being a “good parent” so we can take charge of our lives and show our kids how to take charge of their own. Gary John Bishop has helped millions of people break free of self-sabotaging behaviors. Yet we all seem to feel like we’re failing at this thing called parenting. Common wisdom isn’t working—our kids are struggling. Gary argues we don’t need more tips, tricks, and techniques, we need an overhaul of who we are. We’re never going to measure up to the “perfect parent” model we’ve built up in our heads—a Frankenstein version of mom and dad cobbled together from our childhoods, our parents, cultural ideals, social media, and everything in between. We want to be good parents, but our pasts hold us back. If you’re thinking: “I can’t be a good parent because I had a shitty childhood, bad parents, or a traumatic experience”—stop! Let go of what came before and start taking action in the present to be the person that nurtures their child from a place of love, forgiveness, and integrity. By doing so, you are modeling and equipping your kids to confidently face the world and thrive. Whether you are a parent, want to be a parent, or simply have parents, this book will cut to the heart of who you are and how you show up in the world—to fully take charge of the direction of your life and show your kids how to follow theirs.

From the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself comes tough-love that explains what makes relationships work: you taking responsibility to fix yourself. 'Love is patient, love is blind. . .' Until it's not. Then what? No matter how much advice we get or how much work we do on our 'stuff', nothing ever seems to make the difference. The truth of it is, you're woefully ill-equipped for one of the most life-defining things you will ever take on - being in a committed relationship. Whether you're currently in one, want to be in one, half in-half out, getting over one, married, single, separated, divorced, or just overwhelmed with the whole thing, let's cut through the morass of relationship schtick and put you back in charge. No flowery BS, no woo-woo strategies, systems, or techniques, just real talk, for real people who want a real relationship in their life that actually works.

From the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself comes tough-love that explains what makes relationships work: you taking responsibility to fix yourself. “Love is patient, love is blind. . .” Until it's not. Then what? No matter how much advice we get or how much work we do on our “stuff,” nothing ever seems to make the difference. The truth of it is, you’re woefully ill-equipped for one of the most life-defining things you will ever take on—being in a committed relationship. Whether you’re currently in one, want to be in one, half in–half out, getting over one, married, single, separated, divorced, or just overwhelmed with the whole thing, let’s cut through the morass of relationship schtick and put you back in charge. No flowery BS, no woo-woo strategies, systems, or techniques, just real talk, for real people who want a real relationship in their life that actually works. Relationship Advice That Works: Gary John Bishop strips away the usual clichés and gets to the core of what makes committed relationships stronger—you taking responsibility for yourself. Tough-Love Dating and Marriage Wisdom: Whether you’re single, married, separated, divorced, or somewhere in between, this book offers real talk for navigating modern relationships. Cut Through Relationship BS: Forget the flowery promises and empty systems—this is direct, honest guidance for people who want a relationship that actually works. Personal Responsibility in Love: Instead of focusing on fixing your partner, Bishop challenges you to confront your own patterns, habits, and blind spots. For Anyone Feeling Stuck in Love: From heartbreak to commitment struggles, this book speaks to the confusion, frustration, and hope wrapped up in building a real relationship.

Lasă scuzele și recuperează-ți viața. Știi că n-ar trebui să faci anumite lucruri și totuși le faci. Știi că ar trebui să faci anumite lucruri şi totuşi nu le faci. Şi simţi că nu poţi să ieşi din acest ciclu nesfârşit. Dacă ai un blocaj în carieră sau în viața personală, dacă nu-ți poți găsi partenerul potrivit, nu reușești să te redresezi financiar sau să-ți atingi scopurile, totul se întâmplă din pricina autosabotării. GATA CU TÂMPENIILE te ajută să-ţi cunoşti şi să-ţi controlezi cele mai profunde mecanisme subconștiente și să transformi cele mai negative gânduri și comportamente ale tale în viața pe care ți-ai dorit o dintotdeauna, dar n-ai ştiut cum s-o dobândeşti. Pregătește-te să renunţi la tot ce ştii despre tine şi să devii cine vrei tu să fii! „Faceți cunoștință cu GARY JOHN BISHOP, scoțianul cu limba ascuțită care revoluționează lumea dezvoltării personale." – Sunday Herald

Have you ever felt like a hamster on a wheel, furiously churning your way through life but somehow going nowhere? Like the happiness you seek, the relationship you crave or the career you've always wanted are constantly out of reach? If the answer to these questions is yes, then you are a victim of your own self-doubt. And now is the time for you to unf*ck yourself.This is not the usual self-help book. This is blunt force trauma to the way you think life has to be for you. Most importantly, it is designed to give you an authentic leg up - one that feels genuine and right for you, and can propel you to new levels of greatness. It will teach you not to look to the outside world for answers, but inside yourself. You will learn how to take full responsibility of your life, the highs and the lows, and you'll actually feel good about it - no, in fact, you'll feel f*cking great about it!

Compelling and straight-shooting wisdom for coping with whatever challenges life throws at us from the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself. In Unfu*k Yourself, Gary John Bishop taught millions of readers how to silence the negative, self-sabotaging voice in their head to thrive. In Wise As Fu*k he expands on his ideas, redefining what it means to be wise and showing how to tackle problems and improve our lives and those of others. When the shit storms of life hit us, many of us don’t know what to do—whether it’s losing a job, suffering a broken heart, or just feeling a lack of purpose. We need wisdom to help us navigate forward. While the internet is full of seemingly good advice, it isn’t helping us actually change our lives. Wise As Fu*k breaks through the bullshit, providing insight to inspire us in the four areas we need it most: love, loss, fear, and success. Written with his widely admired no-nonsense style, Wise As Fu*k provides a welcome fresh perspective to help us transform how we approach a variety of life’s problems. But Bishop makes clear, the work doesn’t stop there. Now that you’ve unfu*ked yourself and and are wise as fu*k about these touchy areas, you can apply the lessons to make a positive impact on the world.

Apa yang menghalangimu diri menjalani hidup terbaik? Kebanyakan orang akan berkata hubungan dengan orang lain, uang, pekerjaan, atau situasi yang tidak menguntungkan. Namun, bukan itu sebenarnya. Hanya ada satu penghalang dalam hidup: diri sendiri. Namun, kalau mencari buku yang akan memberimu kekuatan untuk menemukan segala sesuatu yang selama ini kamu inginkan dalam hidup, seperti sebuah sumur potensial yang menunggu untuk diungkapkan, kamu beruntung. Ini adalah buku pegangan untuk perubahan nyata dalam hidup yang akan membantu mengeluarkan potensi terbaikmu.

Based on the New York Times bestseller Unfu*k Yourself comes an all new self-help workbook of prompts, questions, and exercises, giving you the tools to intentionally commit to finally unfu*king your life. In Unfu*k Yourself, Gary John Bishop inspired people to put his words into action to transform their fu*king lives. Through seven paradigm shifting assertions such as: “I am wired to win,” “I embrace the uncertainty” and “I expect nothing and accept everything,” Bishop helped millions of readers to move past their self-imposed limitations. Still, Bishop knows it’s hard to go from reading the book, feeling inspired, and then actually doing the necessary personal development work. That’s where Do the Work comes in: it’s the kick in the ass you need to get moving and create the life you want. The workbook drills down into three categories ― self, people, and purpose ― to help you identify and remedy the challenges that frustrate and often cripple us. Filled with entirely new material, including personalized prompts and journaling exercises with ample lined space to process your thoughts, Do the Work expands the lessons in Unfu*k Yourself, giving you the tools to intentionally commit to taking on your life. “This is a personal workshop for your brain, a legit resource where you can work your life out, what matters to you, what’s going to make the biggest difference and empower you to act in ways that make some palpable change to the direction your life is currently taking.” The truth will set you free, right? So what are you waiting for? Actionable Strategies: This isn’t a book of theory. It’s a personal workshop for your brain, designed to move you from feeling inspired to actually creating palpable change in your life. Negative Self-Talk: Interrupt the cycle of self-sabotage with no-BS questions that get to the heart of what’s holding you back from moving past your self-imposed limitations. Journaling Prompts: Explore three core areas of your life―self, people, and purpose―with guided exercises and ample space to work your shit out on the page. Personal Transformation: Stop tolerating the life you have and start building the one you want. This is the kick in the ass you need to finally do the work.

No hagas más p*ndejadas. Deja de buscar excusas, de auto engañarte. La vida mientras tanto ocurre y tu estás dentro de tu cabeza perdiendo el tiempo. Gary John Bishop vuelve, irreverente, escueto y al grano. Para darte herramientas y soluciones contra el auto sabotaje. Para ayudarte a que vivas la vida que siempre quisiste.

Why do you act the way you do? Do you ever feel like you get stuck in destructive cycles that hold you back from living the life you really want? In a dynamic, compelling and aha-filled journey, Stop Doing That Sh*t helps you connect the dots of your “stuff” all the way from your past to the present. You’ll make sense of yourself as you uncover how to interrupt those destructive cycles of yours and make the kind of profound shift needed to get your life on track. If you can’t save money, if you keep ending up in the same types of toxic relationships, if you feel unloved, don’t fit in, not enough or any one of the myriad of ways that a human being trashes an otherwise good life, this is the book for you. Written in the same irreverent, in-your-face style that resonated with the hundreds of thousand of fans who read Unfu*k Yourself, Stop Doing that Sh*t skillfully reveals our deepest subconscious machinery, with a real-world approach to powerfully translate our most negative thoughts and behaviors into a vitalizing, sabotage-free future. “Stop indulging yourself with fantasies and dramas and unresolved issues. Wake the hell up!” Bishop writes. Look, you might have fu*ked up in the past, so what? Stop Doing That Sh*t reveals how you can break free of those deep-seated patterns to live the life you always knew you wanted but could never quite seem to have. As Bishop says, “The future has arrived. Now what the hell are you going to do about it?”

Acorda: és um milagre do caraças. O que te impede de dar o teu melhor? A maior parte das pessoas arranja desculpas como as relações com os outros, a falta de dinheiro, a m*rda de emprego que têm ou uma série desgraçada de circunstâncias aleatórias. Nenhuma dessas justificações interessa. Para nada. Ao longo de décadas a trabalhar como coach de desenvolvimento pessoal, Gary John Bishop descobriu que só existe um entrave: tu próprio (e os 50 mil pensamentos que tens por dia, muitos dos quais auto-críticos e destrutivos). Portanto, se és do tipo que se ofende facilmente, é melhor não continuares a ler : este livro não é para ti. Mas, se quiseres descobrir em ti próprio um inesgotável potencial, estás mesmo com muita sorte. Não Te F*das é o manual de instruções para os que se resignaram à sua vidinha, ou para aqueles que querem (muito) mais do que têm. Por outras palavras, é um verdadeiro manifesto para uma mudança real e significativa – e que te permitirá libertar toda a tua grandiosidade. Traduzido já em 24 países, do Brasil ao Vietname passando pela Mongólia, Não Te F*das foi o n.° 1 de vendas do New York Times e está nos tops de vendas da Amazon, The Globe and Mail e Publishers Weekly. "Não esperes nem a vitória nem a derrota. Planeia para a vitória, aprende com a derrota."

¿Te sientes como un hámster que corre ferozmente en una rueda intentando avanzar por la vida, y te das cuenta de que no vas a ningún lado? Advertencia: Este no es un libro para debiluchos, para quienes tiran la toalla y lloran sus penas en casa. Aquí no encontrarás apapachos, pero sí una efectiva estrategia para dejar de joderte la vida y hacer algo grandioso de ella. Si no estás dispuesto a cambiar tu forma de pensar y a ir más lejos; suelta este libro y vete a la sección de novelas románticas. ¿Te quedas? ¡Muy bien, sabía que no eras tan frágil! Es momento de trabajar, comienza desde ahora a no sabotearte. EL UNIVERSO NO CONSPIRA NI A FAVOR NI EN CONTRA TUYA, LO ÚNICO QUE TE DETIENE ERES TÚ. Sentimientos, excusas, juicios, miedos, desconfianza. Sé quien quieres ser.

Diga a verdade: você já está cansado de se sentir f*dido, não é? Então, esqueça toda a ladainha de autoajuda que você já viu e conheça finalmente a versão desf*dida de si mesmo.Do autor escocês best-seller Gary John Bishop, chega este revigorante guia de autoempoderamento, livre de rodeios e nem um pouco sutil, que traz uma abordagem para você tornar suas autolimitações coisas do passado. Aqui está o que você esqueceu: você é a p**** do milagre! Não é a pessoa que está parada à sua frente tampouco as circunstâncias que estão bloqueando sua capacidade de avançar: é você e o diálogo interno negativo que você insiste em manter consigo mesmo.

Instant New York Times bestseller. Over two million copies sold! CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR ACTIONS, CHANGE YOUR FU*KING LIFE — A BS-free guide to building better habits, boosting resilience, breaking free from self-doubt, and becoming the fiercest version of yourself A refreshing, no-nonsense, self-empowerment guide that offers an honest, crystal clear, tough-love approach to help you stop the self-sabotage and move past self-imposed limitations. True happiness and success come when you are willing to take that next step—and this is your final push. With all the sh*t going on in the world today, it is time to become the toughest, most tenacious version of yourself. Are you tired of feeling fu*ked up? Want to make a change but don’t know where to start? Tried “trusting the process” and it led to the same self-destructive patterns and procrastination? If so, Gary John Bishop has the answer and the kick in the a** that you need to maximize your potential and grasp your personal greatness. Whether you seek more secure relationships, are ready for a new beginning, or just need the motivation, courage, and confidence to learn from past mistakes and face uncertainty with adversity for the future: this relatable, life-changing handbook is waiting for you. In Unfu*k Yourself, Bishop, your new, tough-as-nails voice of reason, leads you through a series of seven assertions: I am willing. I am wired to win. I got this. I embrace the uncertainty. I am not my thoughts; I am what I do. I am relentless. I expect nothing and accept everything. It isn't other people that are standing in your way, it isn't even your circumstances that are blocking your ability to thrive, it's yourself and the cycle of negative self-talk you keep telling yourself. Often, we know exactly what we need to hear, but simply need to hear it from someone else. Allow this book to be your biggest cheerleader, your small daily reminder to keep going, and the force that lifts that weight of your shoulders. After all, it is going to be great. Lead the life you were meant to have—Unfu*k Yourself