Most Popular Books by Adele Faber

The leading experts on parent-child communication show parents and teachers how to motivate kids to learn and succeed in school. Using the unique communication strategies, down-to-earth dialogues, and delightful cartoons that are the hallmark of their multimillion-copy bestseller How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish show parents and teachers how to help children handle the everyday problems that interfere with learning. This breakthrough book demonstrates how parents and teachers can join forces to inspire kids to be self-directed, self-disciplined, and responsive to the wonders of learning.

You Can Stop Fighting With Your Chidren! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know–how you need to be more effective with your children and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down–to–earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Their methods of communication, illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action, offer innovative ways to solve common problems.

The #1 New York Times best-selling guide to reducing hostility and generating goodwill between siblings. Already best-selling authors with How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish turned their minds to the battle of the siblings. Parents themselves, they were determined to figure out how to help their children get along. The result was Siblings Without Rivalry. This wise, groundbreaking book gives parents the practical tools they need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for children to experience the joys of their special relationship. With humor and understanding—much gained from raising their own children—Faber and Mazlish explain how and when to intervene in fights, provide suggestions on how to help children channel their hostility into creative outlets, and demonstrate how to treat children unequally and still be fair. Updated to incorporate fresh thoughts after years of conducting workshops for parents and professionals, this edition also includes a new afterword.

In this international bestseller, discover the number one practical guide to family life. Parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish provide effective step by step techniques to help you improve and enrich your relationships with your children. Learn how to: · Break a pattern of arguments · Cope with your child''s negative feelings · Engage your child''s co-operation · Set clear limits and still maintain goodwill · Express your anger without being hurtful · Resolve family conflicts peacefully

From the #1 New York Times bestselling authors of How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and Siblings Without Rivalry, a new edition of the timeless paperback and audio guide that provides parents with need-to-know basics about how to communicate effectively with their children—now with additional material and workbook exercises. Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish’s down-to-earth, respectful approach to parenting has improved the lives of countless families throughout the world. Now, the authors’ wisdom and advice are collected in this concise new edition of How to Be the Parent You Always Wanted to Be—an essential workbook and audio guide to their widely embraced and empowering methods of parenting—uniquely designed for busy parents on the go. Faber and Mazlish address the struggles parents face every day. By listening to this recording and doing the workbook exercises, you’ll learn how to: •Deal with your children’s strong emotions •Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill •Express your angry feelings without being hurtful •Engage your children’s cooperation •Resolve family conflicts peacefully Loaded with real-life stories, delightful cartoons, and answers to commonly asked questions, this new multimedia edition demonstrates simple, proven skills that can make relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

Do your children argue some of or most of the time? Do you struggle as a parent to manage conflict between them? Then you are not alone - and parenting experts are here to help. Part of the internationally bestselling How to Talk... parenting series, this use -friendly guide is filled with tested and practical guidelines for how to cope with - and deflect - sibling rivalry. Whether your children are struggling with unhealthy competition, or with jealousy and resentment, or you are unsure of how to help as a parent, this accessible book is filled with top tips, relatable stories and forward-thinking techniques designed to transform how your children interact with one another.

The renowned #1 New York Times bestselling authors share their advice and expertise with parents and their teens in this accessible, indispensable guide to surviving adolescence Acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. Now, they return with this revolutionary guide that tackles the tough issues teens and their parents face today. Filled with straightforward, no-nonsense advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth, accessible style sure to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers both innovative suggestions that can be put into immediate action and proven techniques to build the foundation for lasting relationships. Covering topics from curfews and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents and teens the tools to safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence.

The Companion Volume to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk In this honest, illuminating book, internationally acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish bring to life the principles of famed child psychologist Dr. Haim Ginott, and show how his theories inspired the changes they made in their relationships with their own children. By sharing their experiences, as well as those of other parents, Faber and Mazlish provide moving and convincing testimony to their new approach and lay the foundation for the parenting workshops they subsequently created that have been used by thousands of groups worldwide to bring out the best in both children and parents. Wisdom, humor, and practical advice are the hallmarks of this indispensable book that demonstrates the kind of communication that builds self-esteem, inspires confidence, encourages responsibility, and makes a major contribution to the stability of today''s family.

The No. 1 best-selling book in the New York Times and the No. 1 best-selling book in the US Amazon rankings How to say, children will listen vs. how to listen, children are willing to say the youth version of the classics! There is a necessary parenting bible for teenagers at home. The best-selling author of The New York Times shares professional knowledge and advice with parents and teenagers, and brings easy-to-understand adolescent survival guides. Andell Faber and Elaine. With the breakthrough best-selling book How to say, children will listen vs. how to listen, children are willing to say, Mazli Xu changed the parenting style of parents.

Award-winning experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish explain the countless ways the use of language can build self-esteem, inspire confidence and encourage responsibility. With easy to follow examples and case studies, they''ll show you how to take simple effect steps that will change the mood in your home and empower children in unexpected ways. Of mishaps: Instead of ''Now look what you did!'' try ''The milk spilled. We need a sponge.'' Of misbehaviour: Instead of ''Bad boy! No more crayons for you!'' try ''Walls are not for writing on. Paper is for writing on.'' Of feelings: Instead of ''Stop crying. It''s only a scratch!'' try ''A scratch can hurt.'' Full of humanity and wisdom, this is an invaluable guide to bringing out the best in relationships between parents and children.

Memiliki anak-anak yang comel memang satu anugerah. Namun mendidik mereka bukan calang-calang cabarannya. Tambahan pula apabila anak-anak sudah mula petah bercakap dan sudah bijak berfikir. Sekiranya ibu bapa tersalah langkah dalam mendidik anak-anak, pendekatan negatif seperti menghukum, memukul, menengking, dan sebagainya akan dianggap sebagai pendekatan yang efektif. Menerusi buku How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk Edisi Bahasa Melayu ini, ibu bapa akan lebih memahami kaedah yang betul tentang cara mendidik dan mendisiplinkan anak seperti : • Membantu Anak Mengendalikan Perasaan Mereka • Mewujudkan Kerjasama • Alternatif Selain Hukuman • Galakan Berdikari • Pujian • Bebaskan Anak Daripada Memainkan Peranan • Menggabungkan Semuanya Bersama Anak-anak ibarat kain putih, sebagai ibu bapa yang bertanggungjawab mencorakkan kehidupan mereka, ambil masa dan sentiasa berikan usaha terbaik dalam mendidik supaya mereka tidak membesar dengan sia-sia.

Tiga tahun dan beberapa draf kemudian, apabila kami akhirnya memiliki manuskrip yang telah siap di tangan kami, kami semua berasa sangat berpuas hati. Kami telah meletakkan garis panduan yang jelas bagi How to Talk So Kids Can Learn—At Home and in School. Kami telah memberikan contoh-contoh yang konkrit berkenaan sikap dan bahasa dalam setiap teras proses pembelajaran. Kami telah menunjukkan bagaimana mencipta persekitaran emosi yang membuat kanak-kanak berasa selamat untuk membuka diri mereka kepada hal-hal yang baharu dan tidak dikenali atau tidak biasa. Kami telah menunjukkan bagaimana anak-anak dapat dikerah memikul tanggungjawab dan melatih disiplin diri. Kami telah berkongsi pelbagai kaedah bagi menggalakkan kanak-kanak untuk percaya kepada diri sendiri dan bagi menjadi diri yang mereka mahukan. Kami benar-benar berharap idea-idea dalam buku ini akan membantu pembaca untuk memberi inspirasi dan mengupayakan anak-anak muda dalam hidup pembaca.

Fie că au 3 ani, fie că au 15, copiii pot declanșa uneori conflicte pe care părinții nu reușesc să le rezolve. Ești părinte și te simți copleșit? Copiii tăi pleacă și se întorc târziu acasă, s-au apucat de băut, petrec timp cu prieteni în care nu ai încredere, sunt deranjați de orice faci și spui sau pur și simplu sunt furioși când vrei să-i iei din parc și îți spun că ești cel mai groaznic părinte? Te-ai săturat de toate astea și orice metodă încercată pare de la început un eșec? Cartea scrisă de Adele Faber și Elaine Mazlish este un ghid practic. Principii și abilități noi sunt prezentate succint, prin exemple me-nite să te ajute să găsești cea mai bună soluție pentru abordarea problemelor inevitabile în procesul de creștere a copiilor. Vei reuși să diminuezi conflictele și să comunici mai bine cu copiii tăi. Adele Faber și Elaine Mazlish scriu despre atitudini și limbaje care să-i ajute pe adulți să exceleze în relațiile cu copiii lor. — The New York Times Cărțile lor sunt o reușită literară în afirmarea celor mai înalte valori ale spiritului uman. — Juriul Christopher Award Autoarele reușesc să te învețe cum să asculți cu adevărat. — The Guardian Adele Faber și Elaine Mazlish se bucură de un renume internațional pentru experiența lor în comunicarea dintre adulți și copii. Autoare multipremiate, au ocupat prima poziție în clasamentele New York Times.Cărțile li s-au vândut în mai mult de cinci milioane de exemplare și au fost traduse în 30 de limbi, aducându-le recunoștința a mii de părinți și profesori, cât și aprobarea entuziastă din partea comunității științifice de profil. Poate că ești unul dintre părinții care, orice-ar face, sunt mereu în conflict cu copiii lor. Trebuie să rezolvi situația, dar, totodată, ai o slujbă și multe responsabilități – timpul nu-ți permite să te dedici prea mult căutării de metode pentru a-ți îmbunătăți relațiile cu ei. Iată o carte care se concentrează pe sfaturi practice – le prezintă clar și le reduce la esențial, astfel încât să reușești performanța de a fi un părinte mai bun într-un timp scurt, dar cu efect pe termen lung.

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The authors adapt their communication strategies to specific concerns of the classroom.