Most Popular Books by Gershen Kaufman

In this classic volume, Kaufman synthesizes object relations theory, interpersonal theory, and, in particular, Silvan Tompkins''s affect theory, to provide a powerful and multidimensional view of shame. Using his own clinical experience, he illustrates the application of affect theory to general classes of shame-based syndromes including compulsive; schizoid, depressive, and paranoid; sexual dysfunction; splitting; and sociopathic. This second edition includes two new chapters in which Dr. Kaufman presents shame as a societal dynamic and shows its impact on culture. He examines the role of shame in shaping the evolving identity of racial, ethnic, and religious minorities, and expands his theory of governing scenes. This new edition will continue to be of keen interest to clinical psychiatrists as well as graduate students.

This teacher’s companion to a classic book for kids provides tools for building self-esteem and personal power. Without self-esteem, kids doubt themselves and may turn to unhealthy habits as a way of coping. With self-esteem, kids feel secure, are willing to take positive risks, and are resilient in the face of challenges. This teacher’s guide expands the messages of Stick Up for Yourself!, teaching self-confidence and how to be assertive with easy-to-use sessions. Created for the classroom, these sessions can also be used in other group settings including counseling groups, out-of-school programs, community programs, and more. Digital content includes reproducible handouts.

Gershen Kaufman and Lev Raphael expose the role shame has come to play in the lives of gay men and lesbians. The authors break the silence surrounding gay and lesbian experience so that individuals can "come out" of shame and begin a path toward personal growth and acceptance.

A person''s self-esteem is based on real facts and achievements, and it is the single most important psychological tool to facilitate relationships with other people. Without self-esteem, kids doubt themselves and wilt under the pressure of their classmates, making them feel inferior and worthless-- oftentimes seeking alcohol and drugs for an escape. This guide for parents and teachers is a step-by-step program meant to be used from first grade through middle school. It teaches the three most important skills in life: how to create self-esteem, how to be conscious of ones'' self, and how to be assertive in a positive way. La autoestima de cualquier persona se basa en hechos y logros verdaderos-- es la habilidad psicolo gica ma s importante que se puede desarrollar para poder desenvolverse en la sociedad. Sin autoestima, los nin os dudan de ellos mismos, se doblegan ante la presio n de sus compan eros, se sienten inferiores y sin vali a y pueden buscar en las drogas o el alcohol su apoyo. Esta gui a para maestros y padres es un programa paso por paso que puede ser utilizado desde los an os avanzados de primaria hasta el final de la educacio n media. Ensen a las tres hablilidades importantes para la vida: co mo formar la autoestima, co mo ser conciente de uno mismo y co mo ser asertivo de manera positiva.

Based on the premise that all young people should learn to make decisions, respect themselves, and resolve challenging problems, this book is a self-help guide for adolescents to develop positive thinking, high self-esteem, and personal power. Exercises guide readers through learning about their own feelings, dreams, and needs while stressing that they are responsible for their own behavior and happiness. Situational anecdotes used to enhance the discussion are age-appropriate and relevant to children. Writing and keeping a journal are encouraged, and group exercises make the book useful in the classroom, family, or guidance group. Basado en la premisa que todos niños deben aprender a tomar decisiones, respetarse, y resolver problemas difíciles, este libro es una orientación para que los jóvenes sepan cómo defenderse, pensar positivamente, y aumentar su autoestima. Los ejercicios presentan situaciones reales en las que, sin molestar a otras personas y sin meterse en problemas, los lectores logren sentirse mejor consigo mismos y se responsabilicen de su conducta. Motiva a los jovenes para que conozcan todo sobre si mismos y también aprendan a reconocer sus sentimientos, sueños, y necesidades. Escrito para jóvenes y niños, también es recomendable para maestros, orientadores, y padres comprometidos a ayudar a sus hijos a desarrollar habilidades vitales importantísimas y una autoestima sólida.