New Releases by Judy Sheindlin

Sheindlin enters a lively dialogue with readers from her popular Web site to explore, with humor and savvy, the pitfalls and possibilities of sharing a life together before marriage. In her inimitable way she offers reality checks, cautions against blind love, and advises that couples entering live-in relationships protect themselves.

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Bestselling author and star of the #1 syndicated TV show, Judy Sheindlin has ruled on hundreds of cases involving relationship disputes over the years. Now she shares her solutions to problems that plague many relationships today. Very different from what it was even twenty years ago, the traditional nuclear family now includes exes, ex-in-laws, merged families, stepchildren, friends from previous marriages and relationships, and even pets. This can create a complex web of relationships, easily becoming a knot in today's world. Judge Judy unravels these knots for everyone in a tangle. From the decision to marry to writing a will, Judge Judy tackles all the relationship issues that drive people crazy...and sometimes to court.

Presents kids with questions about real-life dilemmas and asks them to select the best response from a list of choices.

Emanzipation hin oder her: Viele Frauen sind auch heute noch immer das schwächere Geschlecht, wenn es darum geht, ihre Bedürfnisse durchzusetzen. Vor allem wenn Liebe im Spiel ist, sind sie gerne blind. Wie sonst lässt sich erklären, dass sie Verträge unterschreiben, ohne sie zu lesen, ihren geliebten Job aufgeben, weil der Partner das so will oder Kontakt mit langjährigen Freunden abbrechen? Mangelndes Selbstwertgefühl lässt sie oft den Weg des geringeren Widerstandes gehen, bemängelt Judy Sheindlin in ihrem Buch "Schönheit geht, Dummheit bleibt" Fehler, die Frauen nur einmal machen sollten". Sheindlin weiß, wovon sie spricht, als Familienrichterin erlebt sie tagtäglich die unglaublichsten Geschichten. Ihr Ratgeber will mit Beispielen und zehn Lektionen zum selbstbestimmten Leben allen Frauen Mut machen, endlich auch die Alternativen im Leben zu finden.

Today's definition of family is completely unrecognizable from what it was forty, thirty, even twenty years ago. Into the chaos that has become typical of the modern American family, judge Judy Sheindlin attempts to bring some order. With Keep It Simple, Stupid, Judge Judy addresses how convoluted family life has become. The traditional nuclear family has expanded to include exes and parents of exes, merging families, stepchildren, lovers, adopted children, in-laws the list goes on and on. Complex issues naturally arise from the enlarged families into which we're born. There is the ex-wife who wants more child support from husband number one so she can stay home with new baby by husband number two. There are the parents who gave their daughter thirty thousand dollars as a wedding gift only to watch the marriage quickly crumble and their former son-in-law claim half the money. How about the adult son who runs out on his kids, leaving his parents to pay his child support? When it comes to families, Judge Judy has seen it all in her courtroom, and she knows stupidity when she sees it. Tackling all the explosive issues that drive families crazy -- and into court -- Judge Judy shares her on-target, brutally honest thoughts on the chaos that is characteristic of today's American family and gives no-holds-barred advice on how to resolve conflicts and repair relationships.

Multiple-choice questions about the right thing to do in different situations.

Multiple-choice questions about the right thing to do in different situations.

Judge Judy has heard enough.As a family court judge in New York City and now in her successful TV courtroom show, she has listened to thousands of excuses, complaints, and tales of woe from women of every background, and she's ready to rule. Women, she states with her trademark frankness, need to wise up, stop subjugating who they are, and stop making stupid decisions in the name of love. They hide their talents and opinions so they won't offend. They tiptoe through life letting others take credit for their ideas because they would rather be liked than respected. They spend their lives trying to please everyone but them-selves, and then they wonder why they feel so frustrated and unfulfilled. Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever presents Judge Judy's ten hard and true lessons for happiness: Beauty fades, dumb is forever. Don't crawl when you can fly. What goes up must come down. Denial is a river in Egypt. Master the game--then play it. You're the trunk of the tree. You can't teach the bull to dance. Failure doesn't build character. Letting go is half the fun. You can be the hero of your own story.

Au cours de sa carrière de juge aux affaires familiales, Judy Sheindlin a vu et revu les retombées dévastatrices sur les femmes de leurs choix stupides concernant aussi bien leur mariage que les enfants et leur avenir. Elle a vu des femmes trouver encore des excuses aux hommes qui les brutalisaient, et d'autres acceptant des conditions de travail avilissantes. Elle en a vu qui, plutôt que de choisir leur compagnon, se permettaient d'en être choisies, et d'autres préférer s'en remettre aux hommes plutôt que de se fier à leur propre jugement. Dans ce livre, Judy Sheindlin décrit, avec l'humour et le bon sens qui la caractérisent, tous ces vilains petits secrets qui sont le partage de tant de femmes, et les répercussions destructrices qu'ils ont sur elles. Elle illustre son propos de situations réelles mettant en scène des femmes de tous horizons, et n'hésite pas à recourir à des anecdotes tirées de sa propre vie. Judy Sheindlin indique aux femmes comment elles peuvent modifier leur comportement et - tout aussi important comment apprendre à leurs filles à réaliser leurs rêves en gardant intacte leur individualité. En tant que juge, épouse, mère, et grand-mère, Judy Sheindlin sait combien l'estime de soi et l'indépendance sont importantes. Elle s'efforce donc d'instiller aux femmes - à l'aide d'exemples provocants et hilarants - le sentiment qu'il est urgent d'édifier de solides fondations à l'intérieur de soi. De devenir quelqu'un. De prendre soin de soi-même. D'apprendre de ses erreurs et des batailles impossibles à gagner. De comprendre ce que le sexe peut et ne peut pas faire pour elles. De bien saisir l'importance de l'humour et de savoir ne compter que sur soi-même. Son discours direct explique aux femmes à se servir de tout cela et à ne jamais oublier que l'intelligence aussi est éternelle.

font COLOR="#000000" FACE="MS Sans Serif" SIZE="1" ¡n we get some reality in here?ߡsks Judy Sheindlin, former supervising judge for Manhattan Family Court. For twenty–four years she has laid down the law as she understands it: ● If you want to eat, you have to work. ● If you have children, you'd better support them. If you break the law, you have to pay. If you tap the public purse, you'd better be accountable. Now she abandons all judicial restraint in a scathing critique of the system – filled with realistic hard–nosed alternatives to our bloated welfare bureaucracy and our soft–on–crime laws.