New Releases by Lysa TerKeurst

It''s not that we want to be controlling people; it''s just that we want to prevent bad things from happening and bring stability to the chaos. Especially when we are afraid of what God seems to be allowing. So we come up with plans and get very intentional about trying to make everyone around us line up with what we really think is best. We don''t have bad motives. We''re just desperate to prevent another hardship, more heartbreak, and all the emotional turmoil that feels so unnecessary. But this only leads to a counterfeit version of control where we believe everything depends on us—a crushing weight we were never meant to bear. In this six-session video Bible study, Lysa TerKeurst addresses the tension so many of us live in, where it seems like the Lord isn''t paying attention and the only reasonable option is to take matters into our own hands. She shows us how to: Identify the core fears that fuel us to reach for control but only compound the chaos. Know when we''re crossing the line from healthy responsibility into the dangerous territory of fear-driven control. Recognize specific tactics of the enemy that keep us in spiritual confusion (about God) fueled by emotional exhaustion (from the relentlessness of life). Stop allowing the decisions of others to rob our peace by learning what to do when we feel tempted to inappropriately intervene, rescue, or control the narrative. Wrestle honestly with the Lord about hard questions like, Why aren''t You doing more to change this person or these circumstances? and I didn''t see You do it then, so how do I know You''ll do it now? This study guide includes: Individual access to six streaming video sessions Video notes and a comprehensive structure for group discussion time Personal study for deeper reflection between sessions A guide to best practices for leading a group Streaming video access code included. Access code subject to expiration after 12/31/2030. Code may be redeemed only by the recipient of this package. Code may not be transferred or sold separately from this package. Internet connection required. Void where prohibited, taxed, or restricted by law. Additional offer details inside.

A Failed Marriage Doesn’t Make You a Failure in God’s Eyes. When Lysa TerKeurst experienced the painful and unwanted death of her marriage after nearly thirty years, she didn''t know who to turn to or what would actually help her. She needed to get her bearings on what the Bible really says about marriage and divorce. She also needed the tools to work through the fallout she was walking through. Now, Lysa, alongside theologian Dr. Joel Muddamalle and Licensed Professional Counselor Jim Cress, offers you that resource, answering some of your toughest questions about how to move on, even when your marriage doesn’t, such as: Does God hate divorce? How do I stop feeling so angry about all that has been taken from me? Why hasn’t God stopped all this tragedy from happening? How do I walk toward a future I never envisioned? How long is it going to take to heal? Whether you’re in the throes of a divorce, still processing things that happened years ago, or walking with someone you love through a devastating season, help is not far away and God deeply cares for you. Surviving an Unwanted Divorce offers biblically based, practical strategies for navigating loss, shame, intense loneliness, and the unfairness of it all as one life season ends . . . and a new hope-filled season begins.

É verdade que os desafios da vida começam desde a infância. O kit Vai dar tudo certo + Aconteça o que acontecer, sempre vou amar você foi cuidadosamente elaborado para transmitir valores de fé, amor e segurança às crianças em momentos desafiadores. Por meio de histórias cativantes e ilustrações encantadoras, estes livros mostram como Deus está presente em todas as circunstâncias, oferecendo conforto e coragem. Em Aconteça o que acontecer , sempre vou amar você, Lulu e Max organizam jogos com os amigos para celebrar o Festival do Campo, onde o vencedor será líder da floresta. Mas algumas atitudes dos jogadores estão prejudicando a diversão. Este livro ensina às crianças lições sobre amizade, perdão e como competir com alegria. Vai dar tudo certo ajuda as crianças a enfrentarem medos e mudanças, mostrando que Deus está sempre cuidando delas. Através dos personagens Sementinha e Raposinha, os pequenos aprendem a confiar em Deus, superar situações desafiadoras e construir um relacionamento com Ele.

Você já imaginou o que pode acontecer quando uma mulher diz - sim - a Deus e caminha pela fé? Em Mulheres de fé, a premiadíssima escritora Lysa TerKeurst convida você a experimentar uma relação mais profunda e significativa com Deus. Neste livro, Lysa compartilha histórias reais, reflexões poderosas e princípios práticos para ajudar você a ouvir a voz de Deus, superar os desafios da obediência e encontrar força em meio às adversidades. Dividido em etapas de jornada, o livro explora como a fé pode transformar seu coração, sua mente e sua vida, permitindo que você viva os propósitos que Deus planejou especialmente para você. Descubra como: Dizer - sim - a Deus pode trazer clareza e direção em meio às incertezas. Caminhar pela fé abre portas para bênçãos além do imaginável. Viver de acordo com o plano divino proporciona alegria, paz e plenitude. Este livro é um convite inspirador para que você abra seu coração e permita que Deus a conduza a uma vida extraordinária. Se você deseja fortalecer sua fé, renovar sua esperança e encontrar o verdadeiro propósito de Deus para sua vida, esta é a leitura que poderá mudar seu relacionamento com Ele para sempre. Diga - sim - e comece hoje mesmo sua jornada rumo a uma vida de fé inabalável!

Será que estabelecer limites é falta de amor ou sinal de egoísmo? O que a Bíblia nos orienta a fazer quando um relacionamento deixa de ser seguro ou sustentável? Lysa TerKeurst compreende essas questões difíceis que surgem em meio a conflitos relacionais. Após milhares de horas em aconselhamento e uma extensa pesquisa teológica que transformou sua forma de definir relacionamentos saudáveis, ela está mais comprometida do que nunca a amar as pessoas sem perder o melhor de si mesma. E ela deseja ajudar você a fazer o mesmo. Neste livro, Lysa ajudará você a: • Compreender os cinco fatores essenciais para estabelecer limites saudáveis. • Determinar o nível apropriado de acesso pessoal e emocional que alguém pode ter a você. • Parar de se enganar por conta de interpretações bíblicas equivocadas. • Superar o ciclo cansativo de tentar impor limites que não funcionam, por meio de estratégias práticas para que você consiga se comunicar melhor e manter padrões mais saudáveis. • Saber dizer adeus sem culpa quando um relacionamento passou de difícil a destrutivo e se tornou insustentável. • Receber orientações terapêuticas confiáveis diretamente do conselheiro cristão dela, Jim Cress, que contribui com sua sabedoria ao longo de todo o livro. Você sentirá alívio ao descobrir que limites não são apenas uma boa ideia — são uma ideia de Deus.

Recunoaste chemarea lui Dumnezeu Intr-o lume in care cerintele vin din toate directiile si da-urile par dovada iubirii si acceptarii, Lysa TerKeurst ne provoaca sa ne oprim. Sa respiram. Sa ascultam. Spune-I da lui Dumnezeu nu este doar un ghid de ascultare spirituala, ci o chemare la trezire. Ne arata ca fiecare „da” oferit lui Dumnezeu este, de fapt, o renuntare sfanta la ceea ce e superficial, aglomerat si fara rod. Asa ca inainte sa spui da unei invitatii, intreaba-te: - Imi umple sufletul sau doar agenda? - E un „da” pentru chemarea mea… sau doar pentru a nu dezamagi pe cineva? - Il onoreaza pe Dumnezeu… sau doar ma grabesc sa fiu pe placul cuiva? Lasa-L pe Dumnezeu sa-ti scrie povestea. Inamicii unei vieti minunate nu sunt tragedia, suferinta si dificultatile. Inamicul unei vieti minunate este a duce pur si simplu o viata confortabila. O viata in care pui mai mult pret pe confort si tihna decat pe crestere. O viata in care eviti sa mergi prin credinta cu Dumnezeu. Traim intr-o lume decazuta, asa ca nimeni nu poate ocoli toate gropile din drumul vietii. Vei trece prin necazuri. Vei fi lovita si ranita, dar nu trebuie sa ajungi dezorientata. Spune-I da lui Dumnezeu acum. Spune da oricarei situatii pe care o ingaduie in viata ta. Cauta-L pe El din toata inima. Mediteaza la ceea ce vrea sa te invete. Renunta la ceea ce iti cere sa renunti. Si fii incredintata ca El lucreaza chiar acum, in culise, la indeplinirea planurilor minunate pe care le are pentru viata ta. Increderea in Dumnezeu nu este pentru cei slabi de inima. Este doar pentru aceia care vor sa descopere binecuvantarile imbelsugate ale umblarii indeaproape cu Dumnezeu in asa masura incat sa-I auda soapta blanda. „Pentru oricine a indraznit sa viseze alaturi de Dumnezeu, aceasta carte este de neratat.” — Dr. Bruce Wilkinson, autorul cartii Cel ce da viziune Cuprins Ce se intampla cand femeile Ii spun da lui Dumnezeu Introducere 1. Un suflet care tanjeste dupa mai mult 2. Auzind glasul lui Dumnezeu 3. Cand ascultarea devine radicala 4. Niciodata nu stii cum te va folosi Dumnezeu pana nu Il lasi 5. Ce te impiedica sa-I spui da lui Dumnezeu 6. Daca ar fi usor, n-ar merita efortul 7. Pastreaza-ti perspectiva clara 8. Renuntand la ce n-a fost niciodata al tau 9. Extrem de binecuvantata9 Ce se intampla cand femeile umbla in credinta Introducere Prima etapa: Renuntarea 1. Harta 2. O limita clara 3. Dumnezeu are un plan 4. Iubeste-L pe Dumnezeu mai mult decat visul tau A doua etapa: Foametea 5. Aventura pentru care a fost creat sufletul tau 6. Chemarea extraordinara a lui Dumnezeu 7. Dumnezeu este cu tine 8. Nu te lasa coplesita de amaraciune A treia etapa: Increderea 9. O cale extrem de neobisnuita 10. Piedici si garantii 11. Dumnezeu va croi o cale 12. Invata sa indrumi A patra etapa: Moartea 13. Moartea nu inseamna infrangere 14. Perseverenta in suferinta 15. Moartea nu-L surprinde pe Dumnezeu 16. Portia, locul si promisiunea lui Dumnezeu A cincea etapa: Invierea 17. Visul lui Dumnezeu, dupa regulile lui Dumnezeu 18. Promisiunea facuta este promisiune implinita 19. Dumnezeu implineste visurile 20. Implinirea tuturor promisiunilor Despre autoare LYSA TERKEURST este sotie si mama, dar are o activitate profesionala bogata ca vorbitoare si invatatoare de studiu biblic. Este presedinta organizatiei Proverbs 31 Ministries. De asemenea, este autoarea mai multor besteselleruri din topul New York Times. Scrierile sale motivationale i-au adus Premiul „Champions of Faith Author”. Scrie pentru publicatii, precum „Focus on the Family“ si „CNN online“. Anual, Lysa participa la peste 40 de evenimente si conferinte din America de Nord. Pasiunea ei este sa le invete si sa le motiveze pe femei sa-si impartaseasca experienta lor de viata cu Dumnezeu pentru incurajarea celor ce sunt franti spiritual. Dar pentru cei care o cunosc cel mai bine, ea este o femeie simpla, care are o Biblie foarte uzata de atata folosire si care proclama speranta si in vremurile bune, si in cele dureroase. Lysa locuieste in Charlotte, North Carolina, acolo unde se gaseste casa ei alba din caramida, ce adaposteste cele mai importante si pretioase amintiri din familie. Are cinci copii si trei nepoti cu care petrece cat de mult timp posibil, bucurandu-se de liniste, departe de agitatia vietii de zi cu zi.

It is possible to heal, have hope, and trust again. New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst knows what it''s like to struggle with trust issues. In The Trust Journey, she shows you what to do with skepticism and distrust and offers practical advice and biblical wisdom to help you heal from past betrayals and move forward with resilience.

Ist es lieblos oder egoistisch, Grenzen zu setzen? Dürfen Christen Beziehungen beenden, wenn sie nicht länger sicher oder tragfähig sind? Lysa TerKeurst kennt aus eigener Erfahrung all die schwierigen Fragen, die Beziehungsprobleme mit sich bringen. Und sie sagt: Grenzen sind nicht nur eine gute Idee, sie sind Gottes Idee. Was sollte bei der Einführung gesunder Grenzen beachtet werden? Warum ist es wichtig, sich darüber Gedanken zu machen, wie intensiv man jemandem Einblick in das eigene Leben und Fühlen geben will? Können Bibelverse als Waffe eingesetzt werden, wenn sie falsch verstanden werden? Die Leser lernen, wie man mithilfe von praktischen Strategien und guter Kommunikation effektiv Grenzen setzen und beibehalten kann.

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst shows you what to do with your skepticism and distrust so you can heal from past betrayals and move forward with strength and resilience. Trust is the oxygen of all human relationships. But it''s also what trips you up after you''ve been burned. Maybe a friend constantly lets you down. A leader or organization you respect turns out to be different than they portray themselves to be. A spouse cheats on you. A family member betrays you. You''re exhausted by other people''s choices and starting to question your own discernment. And you''re wondering, If God let this happen, can he even be trusted? How can you live well and step into the future when you keep stumbling over trust issues? Lysa TerKeurst says it''s not simply about finding better people to walk with. It''s about developing the stability you long for within yourself and with God, so you don''t become cynical and carry a broken belief system into every new relationship. In I Want to Trust You, But I Don''t, Lysa shows you how to identify which of the eleven relational red flags are stirring up distrust, so you can pinpoint why you''re feeling uneasy; stop having more faith in your fears coming true than God coming through for you by asking crucial "what if" questions to better process your doubts; recognize when a fractured relationship can be repaired by considering a reasonable list of characteristics necessary for rebuilding trust; and understand the physical, emotional, and neurological impact of the betrayals you''ve experienced and start healing from the inside out. In a world where so many things feel alarming, this book will give you a peace that isn''t dependent on unpredictable people, circumstances, and experiences. Instead, it offers practical and biblical ways to make real progress toward healthier perspectives, relationships, and a future you can authentically look forward to.

„Respingerea fura ce e mai bun in mine, intarind cele mai rele lucruri ce mi s-au spus.” Dusmanul vrea sa te faca sa te simti respins, exclus, singur si neimportant. In Neinvitat, Lysa impartaseste propriile experiente legate de respingere – de la traumele din copilarie, cum ar fi abandonul de catre tatal ei, pana la momentele de nesiguranta si comparatie din viata de zi cu zi – si impactul profund pe care aceasta il poate avea asupra vietii noastre emotionale si spirituale, afectandu‑ne toate relatiile, inclusiv relatia cu Dumnezeu. Cu profunzime biblica, vulnerabilitate sincera si un umor revigorant, Lysa te va ajuta sa: Nu te mai simti exclus, amintindu-ti ca, desi s-ar putea sa fii ignorat de altii, esti ales de Dumnezeu. Iti controlezi reactiile la durere, fara sa te prabusesti sau sa incerci sa-i controlezi pe altii, imbratisand modalitati care-L onoreaza pe Dumnezeu pentru a-ti procesa durerea. Stii cum sa te rogi eficient pentru a-ti gasi linistea interioara si a-ti recapata increderea in fata respingerii. Depasesti fricile care iti alimenteaza nesigurantele, intelegand adevaratul sentiment de apartenenta. Neinvitat ne aminteste ca suntem destinati unei iubiri care nu poate fi diminuata, patata sau luata – o iubire care nu respinge si nu exclude pe nimeni. „Frumusetea deosebita a acestei carti consta in faptul ca nu doar empatizeaza cu durerea respingerii, ci insufla un curaj divin in sufletul tau pentru a te ajuta sa inveti sa umbli cu incredere inradacinata in dragostea statornica, vesnica si abundenta a lui Isus!” Respingerea nu este doar o emotie pe care o simtim. Este un mesaj trimis in nucleul a ceea ce suntem, determinandu-ne sa credem minciuni despre noi insine, despre ceilalti si despre Dumnezeu. Respingerile de astazi, fie ele mari sau subtile, sunt precum bombele nedetectabile care tintesc direct miezul fiintei noastre, identificand ranile din trecut si facandu-le dureros de prezente iar. Ele transmit mesaje care dau peste cap toate formulele noastre atent alese pentru mentinerea stabilitatii vietii. Cand identitatea noastra este legata de circumstante, devenim extrem de nesiguri, deoarece circumstantele sunt imprevizibile si mereu schimbatoare. Ne ridicam si cadem odata cu succesele si esecurile noastre. Este momentul sa oprim minciunile si durerea devastatoare care izvoraste din acest tip de identitate circumstantiala si sa ne legam identitatea de Dumnezeul nesovaitor, neclintit, neinduplecat, incontestabil bun si fara indoiala iubitor. Caci legaturile care ne tin de El si de adevarul despre cine suntem in El ni se ofera in acele momente linistite in care spunem: „Iti apartinem, Dumnezeule!” Respingerea nu are niciodata ultimul cuvant. Respingerea poate fi o intarziere sau o distragere sau chiar ceva devastator pentru o perioada. Dar nu este niciodata o destinatie finala. Suntem destinati unei iubiri care nu poate fi niciodata diminuata, intinata, zguduita sau luata. Cu Cristos, in Dumnezeu, suntem in siguranta pentru totdeauna. Suntem pentru totdeauna acceptati. Cuprins Multumiri Capitolul 1: As prefera sa ignor sinceritatea Capitolul 2: Trei intrebari la care trebuie sa ne gandim Capitolul 3: Este la sala o doamna care ma uraste Capitolul 4: Singura intr-o incapere plina de oameni Capitolul 5: Salut! Numele meu este Probleme cu Increderea Capitolul 6: Despartirile intre prieteni Capitolul 7: Cand normalitatea ne este rapita Capitolul 8: Experienta cor0ectiva Capitolul 9: De ce este atat de dureroasa respingerea? Capitolul 10: Nu ma simt amenintata de succesul ei Capitolul 11: Zece lucruri pe care trebuie sa ti le amintesti cand esti respins Capitolul 12: Planul dusmanului impotriva ta Capitolul 13: Minuni in momente de haos Capitolul 14: Disperarea din mijlocul tunelului Capitolul 15: Vreau sa fug Capitolul 16: Planurile mele de salvare nu au functionat Capitol bonus: Cum este sa traiesti alaturi de mine? Cum este sa traiesti alaturi de mine? Evaluare Tabel experienta corectiva Mesaj de la Lysei Versete biblice din Scriptura Lucruri de pus la inima Despre autoare Lysa TerKeurst este sotie si mama, dar are o activitate profesionala bogata ca vorbitoare si invatatoare de studiu biblic. Este presedinta organizatiei Proverbs 31 Ministries. De asemenea, este autoarea mai multor besteselleruri din topul New York Times. Scrierile sale motivationale i-au adus Premiul „Champions of Faith Author”. Scrie pentru publicatii, precum „Focus on the Family“ si „CNN online“. Anual, Lysa participa la peste 40 de evenimente si conferinte din America de Nord. Pasiunea ei este sa le invete si sa le motiveze pe femei sa-si impartaseasca experienta lor de viata cu Dumnezeu pentru incurajarea celor ce sunt franti spiritual. Dar pentru cei care o cunosc cel mai bine, ea este o femeie simpla, care are o Biblie foarte uzata de atata folosire si care proclama speranta si in vremurile bune, si in cele dureroase. Lysa locuieste in Charlotte, North Carolina, acolo unde se gaseste casa ei alba din caramida, ce adaposteste cele mai importante si pretioase amintiri din familie. Are cinci copii si trei nepoti cu care petrece cat de mult timp posibil, bucurandu-se de liniste, departe de agitatia vietii de zi cu zi. Aprecieri pentru aceasta carte Lysa este una dintre scriitoarele mele preferate. Nu doar pentru ca este inteligenta sau profunda sau grijulie, desi este asa. Lysa ma impresioneaza pentru ca este autentica, transparenta si sincera. Are destul curaj si tenacitate pentru a trece prin momente dificile, dar, mai presus de toate acestea, Il are pe Isus. A invatat ca ceea ce Il fascineaza pe El nu sunt succesele noastre, ci credinta noastra. Aceasta carte te va indruma inapoi spre Isus atunci cand simti ca te-ai ratacit. — Bob Goff, autor al bestsellerului New York Times Dragostea actioneaza * Lysa a reusit o noua capodopera! Sigur n-o sa poti sa lasi din mana cartea asta. Este captivanta de la prima pana la ultima pagina. Cu vulnerabilitatea ei caracteristica, Lysa ofera o modalitate sincera de a gestiona temerile, respingerile, nesigurantele si instabilitatea pe care le experimentam cu totii. Crede-ne cand iti spunem ca nu ai mai citit niciodata o carte ca aceasta. Nu o rata! Nu avem cuvinte suficiente sa recomandam Neinvitat. — Les si Leslie Parrott, autori ai bestsellerului New York Times Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts * Lysa TerKeurst are un dar incontestabil de a-si impartasi luptele inimii in moduri care contribuie la edificarea si pregatirea vietilor altora. Nu-mi amintesc ultima data cand am citit o carte cu o asemenea intelegere a naturii umane. Nu rata aceasta carte! Va fi o binecuvantare! — Chris Hodges, pastor principal, Biserica Highlands; autor al cartilor Fresh Air si Four Cups * Aceasta carte trebuie citita. Lysa se adreseaza unei culturi in care oamenii pot afla instant ce mananca, ce se joaca, unde petrec si ce isi planifica prietenii lor, in orice moment accesand un singur buton de pe micul dispozitiv din buzunarul propriu. Partea mea preferata este ca Lysa isi indreapta privirea catre ceea ce este cel mai important, si anume, marea invitatie de a ne aseza la masa cu Dumnezeul Viu care a fost cu noi inca de la inceput. — Jefferson Bethke, autor de bestselleruri precum Jesusu003eReligion si It’s Not What You Think * Ca femeie care s-a confruntat cu respingerea de mai multe ori decat mi‑as dori sa imi amintesc, Neinvitat a fost apa de care avea nevoie sufletul meu insetat. In calatoria mea cu Isus, am plans adesea dupa vindecare si am cautat cuvintele Adevarului pe care sa ma bazez. Aceasta carte mi-a furnizat tocmai acele cuvinte de care aveam nevoie si m-a invatat multe despre iertare. Daca esti in cautarea sperantei, aceasta carte ofera exact ce ai nevoie. — Tara C. * Frumusetea deosebita a acestei carti consta in faptul ca nu doar empatizeaza cu durerea respingerii, ci insufla un curaj divin in sufletul tau pentru a te ajuta sa inveti sa umbli cu incredere sfanta. O incredere inradacinata in dragostea statornica, vesnica, pasionala si abundenta a lui Isus. — Alicia S. * Cuvintele Lysei m-au ajutat sa-mi procesez respingerile fara sa idolatrizez acceptarea sau sa neglijez durerea lor. — Megan C. * Felul in care Lysa leaga viata de zi cu zi de Scriptura m-a ajutat sa-mi vindec durerea sufletului si sa ma rog cu mai mare usurinta cand parea aproape imposibil sa ma rog singura. — Kim C. * Pericolul de a permite ca respingerea sau frica de respingere sa masoare valoarea noastra sta la baza multelor lupte cu care se confrunta femeile astazi. Lysa abordeaza aceasta problema cu onestitate, simt practic, umor si, cel mai important, cu adevarul lui Dumnezeu. Neinvitat nu trebuie ratata! — Sarah R. * Cu vocea unei prietene de incredere, Lysa arata calea catre un Dumnezeu care a intrat in lume cu singurul scop: de a fi respins de ai Sai. El poate intelege durerea noastra. Cu increderea celei care L-a apucat de mana si a trecut prin unele dintre cele mai dureroase vai ale vietii, Lysa ofera cititorului cu instrumentele potrivite pentru a merge inainte invingator. — Erin B. * Este aproape ca si cum Lysa ar fi vazut viata mea si ar fi scris despre ea. Recomand aceasta carte fiecarei femei. — Sarah L. * Recunosc ca m-am surprins pe mine insami ridicand mainile in lacrimi pe parcursul anumitor parti din cartea Neinvitat. Acelea au fost momente deosebit de dulci cu Domnul. — Emily S.

Ganhando ou perdendo, só não pode esquecer... aconteça o que acontecer, sempre vou amar você! A competição pode trazer à tona o que há de pior em nós, mas também pode ser uma oportunidade para aprendermos lições de vida importantes. Lulu e Max planejaram um dia cheio de jogos com seus amigos animais para celebrar o Festival do Campo. O vencedor vai ser eleito líder da floresta! Contudo, más atitudes de perdedores e de vencedores estão acabando com a diversão! Será que os animais aprenderão a competir sem abrir mão da amizade e da alegria? Neste livro, as crianças descobrirão que o seu verdadeiro valor não está em seu desempenho, mas em suas boas atitudes e aprenderão a desenvolver as habilidades necessárias para vencer nas partes mais importantes da vida: amizade e perdão.

Te-a incercat vreodata gandul: „Nu mai pot face asa – ceva trebuie schimbat“? Sau: „Am facut tot ce am putut ca sa repar relatia asta, dar nimic nu merge – ma tem ca devin exact asa cum nu-mi place“? Sau chiar: „Imi place de omul acesta, dar relatia incepe sa para imposibila“? Ai luat aminte la toate sfaturile. Dar incepi sa-ti dai seama ca, daca celalalt nu vrea sa schimbe ceea ce strica relatia, tu nu vei putea de una singura. Asadar, ce-i de facut? Ani in sir m-am framantat cu intrebarile acestea si altele pe langa. Inteleg aceasta hora a disfunctiei la un nivel profund personal. Si cu toate ca amanuntele situatiei tale pot fi diferite de ale mele, vreau sa fiu prietena care vine cu compasiune in intampinarea ta pentru a-ti arata ca a stabili o limita nu inseamna lipsa de dragoste, iar a-ti lua ramas-bun nu este un gest necrestinesc. In definitiv, acestea pot fi piesele lipsa pe care trebuie sa le accepti deplin ca sa poti sa-ti iubesti semenii cum se cuvine si sa nu-ti pierzi identitatea pe parcurs. Cred ca vei fi usurata sa descoperi ca limitele sunt nu doar o idee buna, ci sunt ideea lui Dumnezeu. Pe masura ce vom parcurge acest subiect dificil impreuna, voi fi alaturi de tine la fiecare pas. Relatiile sanatoase impun limite sanatoase. Relatiile interpersonale, desi caracterizate de sentimente intense de iubire si conexiune, nu sunt lipsite de complexitate, generand adesea frustrari si ingrijorari determinate de factori individuali si de dinamica relationala. Visam la ce-i mai bun, ne temem de ce-i mai rau si ne tot spetim sa ne dam seama cum sa ne raportam corect in relatii. Ne cladim viata in jurul celor pe care-i iubim. Iar cei care ne iubesc isi cladesc viata in jurul nostru. Radem, ne conectam si ne deconectam, ne luptam si ne impacam, ne apropiem si ne instrainam, ne revenim si, cu toate acestea, se intampla adesea sa ne confruntam cu dificultati care ne determina sa cautam ajutor si indrumare de la specialisti. Lysa Terkeurst nu promoveaza nicidecum ideea de a renunta la relatii, dimpotriva, ea ofera indrumari pentru a iubi intr-un mod sanatos si echilibrat. Limitele sanatoase nu pot fi stabilite fara dragoste. Limitele stabilite sub impulsuri negative precum furia si amaraciunea conduc la control si manipulare, pe cand cele motivate de dragoste faciliteaza adancirea relatiei. Desi implementarea acestor concepte in viata poate fi dificila, va fi probabil cel mai valoros pas de facut in directia insanatosirii emotionale si a imbunatatirii relatiilor. Aprecieri pentru aceasta carte Mi-as fi dorit sa-mi fi dat cineva aceasta carte la inceputul umblarii mele cu Isus, cand am fost atat de traumatizata emotional de experientele amare din trecutul meu incat n-am stiut nici sa stabilesc limite sanatoase, nici sa-mi iau necesarul adio de la traume. In consecinta, m-am pomenit cu disfunctii in relatii care mi-au provocat multa durere ce putea fi evitata daca aplicam cunostintele dobandite cu atata truda si impartasite in paginile acestei carti. In Limite si despartiri, Lysa demoleaza orice aberatie nociva, dezvaluind principii importante care te vor ajuta sa-L onorezi pe Dumnezeu si sa propasesti in viata stabilindu-ti limite sanatoase si acceptand sa-ti iei trebuinciosul adio de la ceea ce iti impiedica inaintarea. — Christine Caine, fondatoare a organizatiilor A21 si Propel Women * Intr-o lume care vorbeste intruna despre limite, Lysa ne ajuta, cu tact, sa intelegem de ce limitele sunt atat de vitale in relatiile afectuoase dupa care tanjim, aratandu-ne, in acelasi timp, cum sa le stabilim intr-un mod adecvat. Totodata ne invata sa abordam relatiile dintr-o perspectiva sanatoasa, plina de dragoste, care Il onoreaza pe Dumnezeu, dezvaluind adevarata fata a limitelor, care de fapt nu au rolul de a constrange, ci de a exprima dragostea. Daca ai impresia ca cei pe care ii iubesti cel mai mult profita de tine sau iti vine sa tii oamenii la distanta ca sa nu mai fii ranita, in cartea de fata vei gasi sfaturi biblice si practice care te vor ajuta sa gestionezi relatiile in cel mai iubitor mod posibil, facand apel la limite sanatoase pentru a evita ambele extreme. — Jordan Lee Dooley autoare de bestselleruri Wall Street Journal * Lysa reuseste din nou sa faca ceea ce se pricepe cel mai bine, si anume sa ne indrume cu tandrete in misiunea complicata cu care toti ne confruntam la un moment dat: stabilirea limitelor in relatii. Poate ca si pe tine, la fel ca pe mine, discutarea limitelor te nelinisteste, daca nu cumva te sperie. In cartea de fata, Lysa ne ofera incurajare tuturor prin intermediul propriilor sale experiente. Dupa ce am citit aceasta carte, am plans incurajata si plina de speranta convinsa ca relatiile mele se vor insanatosi dupa ce voi purta unele discutii serioase pe tema limitelor. Iti multumesc, Lysa, pentru ca ne-ai ajutat! Toata lumea are nevoie de aceasta carte! — Jamie Ivey, autoare de bestselleruri si gazda a emisiunii The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey * Cartea Limite si despartiri prisoseste de adevaruri scripturale si terapeutice pentru navigarea celor mai complicate relatii. Limitele nu sunt doar o idee buna, ci sunt chiar ideea lui Dumnezeu. Acesta poate fi cel mai important mesaj al Lysei de pana acum! — Sandra & Andy Stanley, North Point Ministries * Multi oameni considera limitele o adevarata pacoste. Multora nici nu le place sa vorbeasca despre ele, desi, pentru a-si recupera relatiile, tocmai de limite au cea mai mare nevoie. Imi place nespus de mult aceasta carte, chiar daca nu are cel mai usor mesaj de digerat, insa daca esti dispus sa treci cu vederea dificultatile si durerea, iti pot promite ca Limite si despartiri va fi o unealta care va contribui la vindecarea si restaurarea vietii tale, producand o transformare radicala in ea. — Michael Todd, autor de bestselleruri New York Times si pastor principal al Transformation Church * Lysa TerKeurst a conceput cu maiestrie o carte care vindeca in profunzime chiar si cea mai ranita inima; a elaborat un manual despre viata traita la limita suferintei si a fagaduintei care seamana mai degraba cu mult asteptata rasuflare plina de usurare. — Carlos Whittaker, autor al cartii How to Human si gazda a emisiunii The Human Hope Podcast CUPRINS Multumiri Introducere: Limitele sanatoase nu se stabilesc fara dragoste Capitolul 1: Nu ti-ai pierdut mintile! (Poti iubi, dar nu poti schimba pe nimeni.) Capitolul 2: Numeste punctul nevralgic cu care toti avem de furca Capitolul 3: Nu este vorba despre probleme, ci despre ce reprezinta ele Capitolul 4: Dumnezeu ia foarte in serios nerespectarea limitelor, si asa s-ar cuveni sa faci si tu Capitolul 5: Deja te descurci de minune Capitolul 6: Poate ca nu toti vor vedea cu ochi buni limitele impuse de tine Capitolul 7: Nu trebuie sa-ti asumi tot ce spun altii Capitolul 8: Sanatatea nu inseamna sa faci pe placul altora Capitolul 9: De ce ma tem atat de mult? Capitolul 10: Poate fi despartirea buna vreodata? Capitolul 11: Nu intorc spatele, ci accept realitatea Capitolul 12: Un milion de mici inmormantari Concluzie: O Biblie, un inel si un Dumnezeu care nu ne paraseste niciodata Invataturi la care sa apelezi cand limitele tale sunt puse la indoiala Cum sa obtii ajutorul de care ai nevoie Cateva observatii importante de remarcat in privinta abuzului Despre autoare Lysa TerKeurst este sotie si mama a cinci copii, dar are o activitate profesionala bogata, fiind, vorbitoare, invatatoare de studiu biblic si presedinta organizatiei Proverbs 31 Ministries. De asemenea, este autoarea mai multor besteselleruri din topul New York Times. Datorita scrierilor sale motivationale, i s-a decernat Premiul Champions of Faith Author. Scrie pentru mai multe publicatii, precum Focus on the Family si CNN online. Anual, Lysa participa la peste 40 de evenimente si conferinte din America de Nord. Pasiunea ei este sa le invete si sa le motiveze pe femei sa-si impartaseasca experienta lor de viata cu Dumnezeu pentru incurajarea celor ce sunt franti spiritual. Dar pentru cei care o cunosc cel mai bine, ea este o fata simpla, care are o Biblie foarte uzata de atata folosire si care proclama speranta si in vremurile bune, si in cele dureroase. Lysa locuieste cu familia ei in Charlotte, North Carolina.

Nossos corações foram feitos para amor e segurança, mas muitas vezes estamos tão acostumadas com a dor, o desgosto e o medo, que nos afastamos dos gestos de cuidado e carinho. Em "Acolhida: 100 devocionais para saber que Deus está te abraçando", Lysa TerKeurst compartilha suas próprias lutas e dúvidas enquanto aponta para a Acolhida Definitiva: os braços abertos de Jesus no Calvário nos puxando para perto de Deus. E porque fomos totalmente acolhidas por Ele, podemos passar nossas vidas confiando em seus caminhos. São 100 devocionais e sugestões de oração que ajudarão a leitora a libertar-se das lutas que a mantém refém, entregar as mágoas mais profundas nas mãos do Senhor, aprender a buscar orientação divina e perceber a presença de Deus em sua vida, mesmo quando Ele parecer distante. Com um tom leve e familiar, a autora parte de suas próprias experiências para mostrar que Deus está de braços abertos para acolher todas as nossas inquietações.

Lysa TerKeurst, autora best seller del New York Times, ayuda a los lectores a detener la disfunción de las relaciones no saludables al mostrar formas bíblicas de establecer límites y, cuando sea necesario, decir adiós, sin perder lo mejor de lo que son. Has escuchado todos los consejos. Pero estás empezando a darte cuenta de que, si la otra persona no quiere cambiar lo que está roto en la relación, no puedes cambiarlo tú solo. ¿Y ahora qué? Lysa TerKeurst entiende este baile con la disfunción y quiere ser tu amiga perspicaz y compasiva que te enseñará que establecer un límite no es falta de amor, y que no es poco cristiano decir adiós. Te sentirás aliviado al saber que los límites no son solo una buena idea, son una idea de Dios. Límites saludables, despedidas necesarias te ayudará a: Comprender los cinco factores que hay que tener en cuenta a la hora de poner límites saludables Determinar la cantidad adecuada de acceso personal y emocional que alguien tiene hacia ti, en función de lo responsable que sea con ese acceso Dejar de ser engañado y paralizado emocionalmente por pasajes bíblicos mal interpretados que perpetúan dinámicas poco saludables en las relaciones difíciles Superar el frustrante ciclo de establecimiento de límites ineficaz con guiones realistas y estrategias prácticas que te ayuden a comunicar, mantener e implementar patrones más saludables Estar equipado para decir adiós sin culpa cuando una relación ha pasado de ser difícil a destructiva y ya no es sostenible Este libro revelador lleno de sabiduría bíblica nació de las propias luchas personales de Lysa con los límites, una extensa investigación teológica y las experiencias terapéuticas que transformaron la forma en que definió y persiguió las relaciones saludables. Lysa ahora está más comprometida que nunca con amar bien a las personas sin perder lo mejor de sí misma. Ella quiere ayudarte a hacer lo mismo. Good Boundaries and Goodbyes New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who they are. You''ve listened to all the advice. But you''re beginning to realize that if the other person doesn''t want to change what''s broken in the relationship, you can''t change it on your own. So now what? Lysa TerKeurst understands this dance with dysfunction and wants to be your insightful, compassionate friend who will teach you that it isn''t unloving to set a boundary, and it isn''t unchristian to say goodbye. You''ll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren''t just a good idea, they''re a God idea. Good Boundaries and Goodbyes will help you: Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you based on how responsible they''ll be with that access Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized scriptures that perpetuate unhealthy dynamics in difficult relationships Overcome the frustrating cycle of ineffective boundary-setting with realistic scripts and practical strategies to help you communicate, keep, and implement healthier patterns. Be equipped to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive and is no longer sustainable

Find the healing and hope you long for when you take time to experience God''s presence each day. Incorporate a new rhythm for those days when life feels too hard through the daily practice of receiving and releasing—receiving God''s encouragement, instruction, and truth to start your day and releasing to God all that''s weighing you down at the end of each day. He''ll set you on a path toward healing. In her newest devotional, New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps you stay connected to God and continue loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or even devastating circumstances. Experience 50 days of morning and evening devotions complimented with beautiful color photography of significant locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing. Each devotion contains: a Bible verse to start your day a statement of truth to remember throughout your day space to write and release something back to God at the end of your day a prayer to receive before you go to sleep to better prepare for tomorrow Without these crucial components woven into the routine of our harder seasons, connecting with the Lord can very quickly begin to feel overwhelming and like just another item on our to-do lists. Lysa understands this struggle and wants to create a sacred space where women can bookend their days with God by simply showing up, soaking in truth, and being reminded they''re not alone on their healing journey. In her gentle, unassuming way, Lysa walks you through the pages of You''re Going to Make It, where you will: receive the biblical truth and encouragement you need when hurtful situations leave you worn out and unmotivated to spend time with God. escape the loneliness of trying to heal on your own with trusted wisdom from a Bible teacher and friend who understands your pain and wants to help you move forward. be reassured that though this difficult season is part of your story, it will not be your whole story. This difficult season doesn''t have to be a time of numbing the pain or going through the motions. Let this devotional help you get intentional and know that, though this may be a hard time, it can also be a holy time.

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries---and, when necessary, say goodbye---without losing the best of who they are.

Relationships are wonderful . . . until they''re not. Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye. Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that''s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles. After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is. In these pages, Lysa will help you: Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries. Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you. Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships. Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication. Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive. Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa''s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book. You''ll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren''t just a good idea, they''re a God idea. Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa: Forgiving What You Can''t Forget It''s Not Supposed to Be This Way Uninvited You''re Going to Make It Embraced Seeing Beautiful Again

In this six-session video Bible study bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps women to explore the roots of rejection; the lies we believe as a result; and the truth about who God is, who we are, and what it looks like to live loved.

Become the Woman God Made You to Be Lysa TerKeurst’s bestselling books have inspired millions of women to uncover the purpose God has for them. Now for the first time, you can find two of her most powerful titles together in one elegant hardcover, perfect for reading for the first time or revisiting as you grow in your faith. What Happens When Women Say Yes to God sets you on a journey of learning how to be obedient to the Lord. You’ll see the beautiful transformation that accompanies following God’s voice in your daily life and open your eyes to the incredible ways you can experience Him today. What Happens When Women Walk in Faith shows you how to pursue God’s call even through times of doubt, discouragement, and pain. You’ll learn how to remain encouraged and equipped through embracing God’s promises no matter what comes your way. Complete with a personal Bible study at the end of each chapter, this two-book collection will lead you on a journey of spiritual renewal and revelation as you joyfully pursue the call God has created you to fulfill.

What is the deep cry of your heart? The ache in your soul just waiting to be fulfilled? The prayer you keep repeating without end? Jesus not only cares about this deep, spiritual wrestling, but He also wants to step in and see you through it. Join Lysa TerKeurst on the streets of Israel to explore the I AM statements of Jesus found in the Gospel of John, ultimately trading feelings of emptiness and depletion for the fullness of knowing who Jesus is in this in-depth Bible study. Features: Leader helps to guide questions and discussions within small groups Five weeks of personal study segments to complete between six weeks of group sessions Four days, with an optional fifth day, of study within each week of personal study Six enriching teaching videos, approximately 15-20 minutes per session, available via redemption code printed in Bible study book for individual streaming access Benefits: Find freedom in difficult circumstances by learning how to shift from "slave mentality" to "set free mentality." Discover how Jesus is the key to satisfaction by learning the crucial significance behind each of His I AM statements. Trade feelings of emptiness for the fullness of knowing who Jesus is. Grow in biblical literacy with this exploration of the Gospel of John. Video Sessions: Session 1: I AM (18:40)--In this introductory session, Lysa introduces the topic of I AM by looking in the book of Exodus where God talks to Moses through the burning bush. First came God''s name, then came His promise. Session 2: I AM the Bread of Life (15:40)--Lysa is in Capernaum during this session and discusses how important bread was in the life of the Jewish people during this time. She reminds participants that only Jesus Himself can satisfy every craving of our soul. Session 3: I AM the Light of the World (21:40)--This third session puts participants at Jacob''s well where Jesus encountered the Samaritan woman. Lysa discusses Jesus as the Living Water and how this Samaritan woman became a light to her world by telling others about Jesus. Session 4: I AM the Good Shepherd and I AM the Gate of the Sheep (18:10)--Psalm 23 tells us about God as a Good Shepherd. Lysa explores that Psalm and reminds listeners that God promises not to restore our circumstances, but rather to restore our soul. Session 5: I AM the Resurrection and the Life and I AM the Way, the Truth, and the Life (20:55)--In this fifth session Lysa overlooks the city of Jerusalem and studies the passage of the raising of Lazarus. She reminds the listener that Jesus longs to bring His resurrection power to us. Session 6: I AM the True Vine (17:35)--During this final session we find ourselves in a vineyard learning about God as the Gardener and Jesus as the True Vine. We learn that pruning makes us look more like Jesus and prepares us to bring forth fruit.

Take a 40-day journey with Lysa TerKeurst and the Proverbs 31 Ministries Team through the storyline of the Bible so you can see major themes, how they are all connected, and what that means for us as we read the Bible today.

Do your kids need a little help learning to compete kindly? How to win and lose well? From New York Times best-selling author and Proverbs 31 Ministries founder Lysa TerKeurst comes a lively picture book about sportsmanship. Lulu and Max have planned an exciting field day for their animal friends, and the winner will be the leader of the forest. But sore losers, bragging winners, and bad attitudes are taking the fun straight out of the contests! Just when the day seems ruined, someone steps in and turns things around. Finally, Lulu and Max must decide who will be leader of the forest. Their choice is a big surprise, but it feels just right. Through Lulu’s love for her animal friends—no matter what—children will discover that their value comes from who they are, not how they perform. This gentle and playful story will help kids develop the skills they need to win at the most important parts of life: friendship and forgiveness.

*I''ll Start Again Monday is a newly revised and condensed version of Lysa''s bestseller Made to Crave.* Have healthy eating plans left you feeling defeated? Based on her bestseller Made to Crave, Lysa TerKeurst offers a new perspective to all those stuck in the cycle of losing weight and then gaining it back, equipping you with the deeper spiritual and emotional motivation you need to make lasting changes. So often we characterize our food cravings as bad, especially when dieting has made us feel even more disappointed and discouraged. But the reality is we were made to crave. We just need to realize God created us to crave more of Him instead of misplacing that craving by overindulging in physical pleasures and unhealthy choices that will never truly satisfy. In the midst of her own personal struggle with this, New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst invites us to embrace a new outlook that leads to enduring change. In this newly revised and condensed version of Made to Crave, Lysa encourages you to: Break the cycle of "I''ll start again Monday" and start taking steps toward consistency that lasts Stop agonizing over numbers on the scale and make peace with your body Replace rationalizations that lead to failure with wisdom that leads to victory Reach your healthy goals and grow closer to God through the process This is not a "how-to" book. This is not the latest and greatest dieting plan. This is the necessary resource to use alongside whatever healthy lifestyle plan you choose that will help you find your "want to" and lead to a spiritual satisfaction that goes far beyond the physical. Look for additional biblically-based resources and devotionals from Lysa: Forgiving What You Can''t Forget It''s Not Supposed to Be This Way Uninvited You''re Going to Make It Embraced

MUDANÇAS INDESEJADAS, dor, decepção, traição, angústia, medo, ansiedade, desesperança, rejeição, conflitos, solidão... Essas coisas fazem parecer que a vida perdeu o seu encanto e a sua beleza. Todas nós temos histórias com alguns desses elementos combinados, e não é fácil voltar a sorrir quando se está no meio da tormenta. Mesmo em meio a tudo isso que nos cerca, acredite nesta verdade: sua vida pode voltar a ser linda. Essa é a tese testada e aprovada de Lysa TerKeurst, autora best-seller do New York Times. Em Redescobrindo a beleza da vida, Lysa compartilha como processou temporadas de decepção e desgosto, enquanto convida você a ter esperança novamente em Deus, que age nos bastidos para o nosso bem maior. Ela nos garante que a dor que sentimos é a prova de que uma bela reconstrução já está em andamento, se não desistirmos. Por meio dessas devocionais incríveis baseadas nas Escrituras, você vai: Obter maneiras mais saudáveis de processar sua dor e aprenderá a ver suas situações através de perspectivas baseadas na verdade. Ver que sua vida não se resume aos momentos ruins e perceberá que com Deus sempre há agora mesmo algo mais verdadeiro, adorável e bom. Parar de se sentir sozinha em suas lutas, passando um tempo orientado com Deus todos os dias ao lado de Lysa, uma amiga que testemunhará suas dores, mas também ajudará você a seguir em frente. Descubra na companhia de Lysa o dom indescritível de Deus, que dá vida até mesmo aos pedaços estilhaçados de nossas histórias, criando algo mais belo do que nunca.

In the middle of the pain you didn''t cause, the change you didn''t want, the reality you didn''t know was coming . . . your life can still be beautiful. We all have stories full of sorrow and celebration. But with God, there''s always more going on than what we see. New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst encourages you to hope again through 50 devotions that will help you find redemption in every part of your story. Lysa, president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, assures us that the aching pain we feel is proof there''s a beautiful remaking already in process if we don''t give up. Through these 50 devotions, Scriptures, prayer prompts, and personal notes from Lysa, you will: Gain healthier ways to process your pain Learn to see your situations through truth-based perspectives Disempower the lie that how you feel about your life is the full story by Remember that with God there''s always something more true, lovely, and good right now Stop feeling alone in your struggles by spending guided time with God each day While there''s no denying there are parts of our story we''d love to edit out, what if those circumstances are the unlikely ingredients God is using to weave together a greater good we''d never want to miss out on? Together we''ll discover the indescribable gift of our God, who breathes life into even the shattered pieces of our stories, creating something new and more beautiful than ever before. Look for additional bestselling books from Lysa TerKeurst: Forgiving What You Can''t Forget It''s Not Supposed to Be This Way Uninvited The Best Yes

Descubre el paso que aún no has logrado y que podría resolver el caos en las relaciones de tu vida. ¿Alguna vez te has sentido atrapado en un ciclo de dolor sin resolver, repitiendo las ofensas una y otra vez en tu mente? Sabes que no puedes continuar así, pero no sabes qué hacer. Lysa TerKeurst ha luchado en este proceso también. Pero de una manera sorprendente, ha descubierto cómo deshacerse del resentimiento acumulado y superar la resistencia a perdonar a las personas que no están dispuestas a hacer las cosas bien. Con profunda empatía, perspicacia terapéutica y amplia enseñanza bíblica que surge de más de 1,000 horas de estudio teológico, Lysa te ayudará a: Aprender a seguir adelante cuando la otra persona se niega a cambiar y nunca dice que lo lamenta. Seguir un proceso paso a paso para liberarte del dolor de tu pasado y sentirte menos ofendido hoy. Descubrir lo que la Biblia dice realmente sobre el perdón y la paz que proviene de vivirlo en este momento. Identificar qué está robando la confianza y la vulnerabilidad de tus relaciones para que puedas creer que todavía hay algo bueno por delante. Disminuir el impacto de los detonantes que se apropian de tus emociones adoptando las dos partes necesarias del perdón. Forgiving What You Can''t Forget Discover the step you have not yet taken that could resolve the chaos in your life''s relationships. Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing the offenses over and over in your mind? You know you can''t go on like this, but you don''t know what to do. Lysa TerKeurst has struggled in this process as well. But in a surprising way, she has discovered how to get rid of the bound-up resentment and overcome the resistance to forgive people who are not willing to make things right. With deep empathy, therapeutic insight, and rich Bible teaching coming out of 1,000 hours of theological study, Lysa will help you: Learn how to move on when the other person refuses to change and never says they''re sorry. Walk through a step-by-step process to free yourself from the hurt of your past and feel less offended today. Discover what the Bible really says about forgiveness and the peace that comes from living it out right now. Identify what''s stealing trust and vulnerability from your relationships so you can believe there is still good ahead. Disempower the triggers hijacking your emotions by embracing the two necessary parts of forgiveness.

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers address the resentment causing heaviness in their hearts while exploring what forgiveness is, what it isn''t, and how to deal with difficult relationships.

If you''ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing offenses over and over in your mind—if you''ve ever been hurt so badly that you don''t know if you''ll ever get past it—discover what the Bible really says about forgiveness and how to find the peace that comes from embracing it. Forgiveness is a major part of the Christian faith. But how do we actually put it into practice when we''re the ones who''ve been hurt? We know God commands us to forgive each other. But, apart from simply saying the words, "I forgive you," many of us have unasked questions about it: How does it work? On our minds, souls, circumstances—what''s actually happening when we forgive? Why is it so important, and what''s the difference between forgiveness and simply moving on? When should I forgive, and are their exceptions? How can I find healing for myself, even if my act of forgiveness doesn''t seem to change the person who hurt me? These are just some of the questions that bestselling author and teacher Lysa TerKeurst explores in this six-session video Bible study (DVD/digital downloads sold separately). This study will walk with you on a step-by-step process--through biblical answers, deep empathy, and the therapeutic insight that comes from Lysa''s personal experiences--toward the grace of forgiveness and the freedom from the pain of past wrongs. Sessions include: What Am I Supposed to Do with All the Hurt? Your Mind, Your Mouth, Your Master The Divine Echo There’s Always a Meanwhile The Compounding Effect of Unforgiveness This Isn’t Easy, But It Is Good Designed for use with the Forgiving What You Can''t Forget Video Study available on DVD or streaming video, sold separately.

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER Take back your life from pain and resentment as you move into the freedom of forgiveness. Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, playing offenses over and over in your mind? You know you can''t go on like this, but you don''t know what to do next. Lysa TerKeurst has wrestled through this journey. But in surprising ways, she''s discovered how to let go of bound-up resentment and overcome the resistance to forgiving people who aren''t willing to make things right. With deep empathy, therapeutic insight, and rich Bible teaching coming out of more than 1,000 hours of theological study, Lysa will help you: Learn how to move on when the other person refuses to change and never says they''re sorry. Walk through a step-by-step process to free yourself from the hurt of your past and feel less offended today. Discover what the Bible really says about forgiveness and the peace that comes from living it out right now. Identify what''s stealing trust and vulnerability from your relationships so you can believe there is still good ahead. Disempower the triggers hijacking your emotions by embracing the two necessary parts of forgiveness. If you are ready to begin the process of healing and moving forward, Lysa has some words of comfort and encouragement for you as you begin the journey: “Dear friend, I understand, deeply and personally, how hard it is when someone does something unchangeable that also feels unforgivable. I''ve cried countless tears and wrestled through so many questions. If you can relate, you''re in the right place. Within these pages, your heart will be tenderly held. Your thoughts don''t need to be edited. Your resistance is understood. But there are some biblical perspectives to consider that have finally brought peace into my life. And I want the same for you. And if no one else has ever said they''re sorry for your deep pain, I will. My heart breaks for what breaks so many of us. So, let me take your hand and lead you through how forgiveness is not only possible but is one of the most healing decisions to embrace."

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers address the resentment causing heaviness in their hearts while exploring what forgiveness is, what it isn''t, and how to deal with difficult relationships.