New Releases by Shefali Tsabary

"An anti-anxiety toolkit of easy-to-understand methods for recognizing anxious behaviors and identifying the causes of worried thinking"--Provided by publisher.

EDUCAR PARA CRECER Ha llegado el momento de que la crianza de los hijos se ocupe de lo que debería haberse ocupado siempre: de los padres. Una visión diferente e innovadora de la doctora Shefali Tsabary para la crianza de los hijos. Prólogo del Dalai Lama. La doctora Shefali Tsabary explica que nuestros hijos solo pueden convertirse en adultos conscientes si nosotros, como padres, procuramos elevarnos a un estado superior de consciencia. Cambiando por completo la idea tradicional de crianza de los hijos, la doctora Tsabary aleja el epicentro de la clásica relación padres-hijos basada en que los primeros «lo saben todo» y lo lleva a una relación mutua en la que los padres también aprenden de los hijos. Este innovador estilo parental reconoce la capacidad de los hijos para provocar una profunda búsqueda interior, lo que origina una transformación en los padres: en vez de ser simples receptores del legado psicológico y espiritual de sus progenitores, los hijos obran como «facilitadores» de su desarrollo. Ahora el centro de atención reside en la afinidad recíproca y la asociación espiritual del viaje padres-hijos. En el enfoque de la doctora Tsabary sobre el estilo parental, los hijos funcionan como espejos del «yo olvidado» de los padres. Tan pronto como recuperan su esencia, los padres entran en comunión con sus hijos. Los unos y otros descubren su capacidad para relacionarse en un estado de presencia. ENGLISH DESCRIPTION Instead of being merely the receiver of the parents'' psychological and spiritual legacy, children function as ushers of the parents'' development. Parents unwittingly pass on an inheritance of psychological pain and emotional shallowness. To handle the behavior that results, traditional books on parenting abound with clever techniques for control and quick fixes for dysfunction. In Dr. Shefali Tsabary''s conscious approach to parenting, however, children serve as mirrors of their parents'' forgotten self. Those willing to look in the mirror have an opportunity to establish a relationship with their own inner state of wholeness. Once they find their way back to their essence, parents enter into communion with their children, shifting away from the traditional parent-to-child "know it all" approach and more towards a mutual parent-with-child relationship. The pillars of the parental ego crumble as the parents awaken to the ability of their children to transport them into a state of presence.

Noi genitori fatichiamo davvero a renderci conto che proponendo solo obblighi e regole, che magari ci sono stati tramandati dalla nostra famiglia di origine, perdiamo la “connessione” con i nostri figli e ci neghiamo la possibilità di conoscerli veramente e capire cosa c’è alla base del loro comportamento.Ben lontano dal proporre un approccio educativo in cui “tutto è permesso”, la psicologa Shefaly Tsabary ci suggerisce qui una metodologia incentrata sul costruire una relazione profonda con i nostri figli che nasce dalla conoscenza e comprensione delle loro emozioni e che li aiuti a sviluppare un forte senso di responsabilità personale basato non su regole e disciplina ma sulla crescita del proprio sé.Imparando ad entrare in connessione con i nostri figli e senza farci condizionare da aspettative e luoghi comuni sull’educazione metteremo da parte regole e disciplina e apriremo finalmente il nostro cuore.

La famosa psicologa Shefali Tsabary illustra in maniera chiara e scorrevole un metodo innovativo di educazione dei figli, riconoscendo il grande potenziale che questi possono avere anche nella crescita personale del genitore stesso.I genitori spesso lasciano incosapevolmente in eredità dolori e traumi psicologici ai loro figli, facendoglieli vivere a loro volta.Anche il migliore dei genitori può commettere l''errore di voler imporre ai propri figli le sue idee, le sue aspettative, i traguardi che lui non è riuscito a raggiungere e che ora vorrebbe vedere realizzati.Spesso infatti, il ruolo che un genitore pensa di avere nei confronti del proprio figlio è quello di dover plasmare il suo futuro, assicurandogli il meglio possibile. La premessa invece che fa l''autrice è il contrario: sono i nostri figli che plasmeranno e trasformeranno noi.Con questo libro farete vostro il concetto di specchio, vedendo i vostri bambini come il riflesso delle vostre più profonde emozioni.Per essere dei buoni genitori, bisogna essere consapevoli. Solo essendo consapevoli delle nostre emozioni presenti potremo influenzare positivamente il futuro dei nostri figli.Un libro con tanti esempi pratici e testimonianze raccolte da esperienze di vita reale, studiate dalla Dottoressa Tsabary con le innumerevoli famiglie che ha aiutato a vivere consapevolmente insieme un nuovo modo di vedere il legame genitore-figlio.Con la prefazione del Dalai Lama "L''autrice delinea l''importanza della compassione e di come possiamo imparare a svilupparla a partire dal rapporto che intratteniamo con i nostri figli"."Guida per Diventare un Genitore Consapevole" è un manuale per dare ai nostri bambini l''opportunità di splendere della proria luce.L''autriceShefali Tsabary è psicologa clinica con un dottorato alla Columbia University di New York. Molto famosa negli Stati Uniti e nel mondo in quanto partecipa ad diversi programmi televisivi. In particolare nella trasmissione condotta da Oprah Winfrey.Con il libro "Guida per Diventare un Genitore Consapevole", molto apprezzato e con la prefazione del Dalai Lama, vuole essere di aiuto a tutti i genitori a crescere con consapevolezza i propri figli.

Akárcsak korábbi könyvében, úgy ebben a művében is újfajta nevelési szemléletet hirdet Shefali Tsabary: ennek értelmében mindez elsősorban nem arról kell szóljon, hogy a szülő átadja a maga kulturális örökségét és értékrendjét, hanem lényege a kölcsönösség - a gyermek viselkedése mélyebb önvizsgálatra és ha kell, változtatásra ösztönözheti a felnőtteket is. Ez a megközelítés érződik magyarul most megjelenő kötetében is, amelynek a témája a fegyelmezés. Rögtön az első két fejezetben arra mutat rá, hogy miért ne működik a hagyományosan alkalmazott korlátozó nevelés, majd olyanokról esik szó, mint a cselekvés nevelőhatása, a fizikális durvaság kezelése, az "igen" és a "nem" hatalma, a tökéletességgel kapcsolatos elvárások letétele, a gyerekek megnyilvánulásainak helyes értelmezése, a józanságunk megőrzésének a fontossága próbák idején, vagy a befolyásolás fortélyai. A folytatásban olvashatunk még ezeken felül arról, hogy mit tegyünk, ha a gyerek ki akar rekeszteni minket a belső köreiből, hogyan kezeljük a tinilázadást és erőszakosságot, a testvérek közötti torzsalkodást, és kiderül az is, hogy miért fontos a kötődés, a szemlélődő attitűd, a megoldáskeresés, az empátia és az ismétlés. A könyvajánlóval záruló mű jó szívvel ajánlható minden szülőnek, aki fegyelmezési, nevelési nehézségekkel küzd. "www.kello.hu © minden jog fenntartva"

FINALIST FOR THE BOOKS FOR A BETTER LIFE AWARD • NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER "Parents . . . you will be wowed and awed by [Dr. Shefali]." —Oprah Winfrey As seen on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday, a radically transformative plan that shows parents how to raise children to be their best, truest selves, from the New York Times bestselling author of The Conscious Parent. What if...? What if I told you that you can put an end to all of your parenting struggles? That you can learn to parent without fear or anxiety? That you can end conflict with your children? That you can create close and connected relationships within your family? …Would you accept this invitation to a revolution in parenting? We all have the capacity to raise children who are highly resilient and emotionally connected. However, many of us are unable to because we are blinded by modern misconceptions of parenting and our own inner limitations. In The Awakened Family, I show you how you can cultivate a relationship with your children so they can thrive; moreover, you can be transformed to a state of greater calm, compassion and wisdom as well. This book will take you on a journey to transcending your fears and illusions around parenting and help you become the parent you always wanted to be: fully present and conscious. It will arm you with practical, hands-on strategies and real-life examples from my experience as a parent and clinical psychologist that show the extraordinary power of being a conscious parent. Everyone in your family is ready to be awakened. Will you take this journey with me? —Shefali

Copiii nu te ascultă? Ai ajuns, deși îți repugnă acest lucru, să recurgi la șantaj și la pedepse pentru a-i determina să lase calculatorul și să se apuce de teme? Intri astfel într-un cerc vicios, trecând de la resemnare la o luptă zadarnică cu morile de vânt. Dar dacă soluția ți-ar sta la îndemână, dacă lucrurile s-ar putea transforma radical printr-o simplă schimbare de perspectivă? În urma unei îndelungi experiențe în lucrul cu familiile, dr. Shefali Tsabary ne propune o soluție ce s-a dovedit utilă pentru crearea și menținerea unor relații armonioase părinte-copil: transformarea stilului de parentaj din unul inconștient, transmis ca atare din generație în generație, într-unul conștient, centrat asupra nevoilor reale ale copilului. Astfel, ea ne arată că menirea părintelui nu este aceea de a modela caracterul copilului și de a-i indica drumul, ci aceea de a-l însoți pe calea sa, cu acceptare și iubire, cu o continuă uimire în fața sufletului ce înflorește sub ochii săi. Când un părinte acționează conștient și nu automat, în virtutea celor deprinse de la propriii educatori, comportamentul copilului se va îmbunătăți de la sine. Cartea oferă părinților și viitorilor părinți o metodă eficientă, de roadele aplicării căreia se vor bucura atât ei, cât și cei mici.

Stille Treppe, Hausarrest, Handyverbot: Allzu schnell ist man als Elternteil mit seinem Latein am Ende und greift zum Mittel der Bestrafung. Doch damit wird sich das Verhalten des Kindes nicht dauerhaft verbessern, denn mit Bestrafung versuchen wir nur, das Problem oberflächlich zu lösen. Da die Strafe in keinem direkten Zusammenhang zum Fehlverhalten des Kindes steht, kann es keine sinnvolle Verknüpfung herstellen und wird sein Verhalten nicht ändern, sondern nur wütend auf die aus seiner Sicht unfairen Eltern sein. Der eigentliche Grund für das Verhalten wird nicht gelöst. Nur wenn das Kind die natürlichen Konsequenzen seines Tuns sieht und mit den Folgen konfrontiert wird (zum Beispiel zu spät zur Schule kommt, weil es den Bus wegen Trödelns verpasst hat), lernt es daraus eigenverantwortlich zu handeln. Aufgabe der Eltern ist es, diesen Entwicklungsprozess ihres Kindes zu akzeptieren und zu fördern, damit sie eine enge Verbindung mit ihrem Kind eingehen können. Dieses Buch hilft dabei, dem Kind einen Sinn für Selbstverantwortung beizubringen und so zu einer von Respekt und Liebe geprägten Beziehung zu gelangen.

Este libro revela el modo en que la disciplina que imponemos para controlar la conducta de nuestros hijos es, en realidad, la causa principal de su mala conducta. La doctora Tsabary afirma que para que la crianza sea eficaz debemos desarrollar una profunda conexión con nuestros hijos y abordar los sentimientos que impulsan sus conductas, en lugar de castigarlos. La doctora Tsabary recomienda que los padres adopten una actitud resuelta, no basada en el control del niño sino, sobre todo, en ayudarlo a desarrollar un profundo sentido de responsabilidad personal. ENGLISH DESCRIPTION Every parent wants the golden key to raise successful children. Embedded in the collective psyche is the notion that discipline is the cornerstone to achieving these goals. Dr. Shefali Tsabary reveals how discipline is a major cause of generational dysfuntion.

THE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER Conscious parenting is about becoming mindful of your behaviour and engaging with your child as an individual. Dr Tsabary inspires parents to get back in touch with their emotions and shed the layers of baggage they have inherited during their own life and are unconsciously heaping on their children. As they become ''conscious'' in their parenting, so parents can transform their relationship with their offspring and raise happy, well-adjusted children. The Conscious Parent is already transforming the way people are parenting through its sales in the US where it''s spent 15 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. Oprah described the book as ''The most profound book on parenting I''ve ever read'' and Eckhart Tolle has said ''becoming a conscious parent is the greatest gift you can give your child.'' The book features a foreword by His Holiness The Dalai Lama.

"The time has come for parenting to become what it was always meant to be-- about the parent. Dr Shefali Tsabary details how our children can be raised as conscious adults only when we as parents allow ourselves to be raised into a higher state of consciousness"--Page 4 of cover of English language edition.

I Wish I Had Read This Book Before I First Became A Mother! It Takes A Refreshingly Honest Look At The Intense Emotional Journey Of Becoming A Mother For The First Time And Validates All The Feelings New Mothers Experience But Are Afraid To Acknowledge. Priyanka Gandhi Vadra Bringing Your First-Born Into The World Actually Means The Birth Of A Whole New You, Says First-Time Mother And Toddler-Survivor Shefali Tsabary. While Everyone Fusses Over The Little Bundle, You Re Going To Have To Overcome The Feeling Of Your Life Being Taken Over And Turned On Its Head (While Your Body Has Been Transformed Into Something Just As Unrecognizable). You Ll Have To Learn To Take Pleasure In Being A Mother Through The Utter Helplessness Of The Initial Days, The Extreme Fatigue Resulting From Sleepless Nights, And The Overwhelming Responsibility Of Shaping Another Life. It S A Mom! Gives You Invaluable Advice On How To Handle Your Baby And Yourself In Every Imaginable Situation. From Feeding And Burping And Establishing Sleeping Patterns To Tackling Your Toddler S Tantrums, This Book Outlines Effective Techniques That Will Make Bonding With Your Baby A Pleasure. And It Gives You The Crucial Tip That Your Ever-Eager-To-Advise Relatives Forget To Mention: You Have A Life Beyond Your Baby And A Body And Mind, And Spouse To Reconnect With. Shefali Tsabary Has Written A Book Of Profound Personal Insight, With The Courage To Confront Her Actual Experiences And Extract Wisdom From Solutions That She Found Helpful. Roni Beth Tower, Ph.D, Diplomate In Clinical Psychology